Chicago's Top 40 Singles 2010

Alan Konn

Alan Konn 50 Managing Director, Uhlmann Price Securities, LLC

On the side I donate to almost any charitable cause that friends are involved in or ask me to support

Hometown Saskatoon, Saskatchewan

Current neighborhood River North

Height 5’9”



My family is so great! They represent the most caring, unselfish, loving people I know… And Mom, I am not saying this just for you to read!

Fun fact The very curly, very long, Afro-like hairstyle I sported for most of my youthful years – no kidding!

The great thing about my job Trying to build something terrific for the benefit of everyone.

Passion Finding warmth during the winter!

I love Chicago because I cannot help it! I mean…the lakefront; the theatre; the food; the music; the sports; the convenience; the SUMMER. It is so obvious?

Secret talents Foosball, darts, billiards, marbles and other remnants of a misguided youth.

Life motto Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. And keep an open mind as we never stop learning and growing.

Hobbies Blackhawks games, White Sox games, and now training and racing.

Ideal Saturday night Depends on who I am with.

On my day off, you’ll find me – Ahem, on a proper day off, you won’t be able to find me!

Role model Austin Powers.

In grade school, I thought I’d never grow up, nor did I want to.

Happiest day of my life Is still ahead of me.

Career highlight Is also still ahead of me!

The thing that would make my life complete Winning the lotto (please see next question)...

If I won the lottery, I’d laugh and laugh!

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me There are so many people in my life that have been so kind to me I would never be able to choose.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Something that others would have to decide.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be able to carry a tune! Just once, let me sing on key.

Fantasy travel destination To travel the world with the wherewithal and capability to do so with no schedule whatsoever.

First job Babysitting, then washing dishes, then camp counselor.

Guilty pleasure Ice cream – chocolate chip, slightly melted, at night, with no one else around.

I wish I’d known at 21 How important it is to pursue what we are passionate about and that convention does not have to be followed.

At parties, I’m always the person in the room avoiding the mirror.

In 10 years, I see myself hopefully struggling between the desire to continue the work I enjoy and the opportunity to experience the luxury of a comfortable retirement.

I can talk for hours about Philosophy, human motivations, even politics – but who would want to listen to me for that long?

Nicknames Ghengis, Konnman, Alvey, and so many others over time.

Favorite Chicago neighborhood River North, of course, it’s where I live!

Title of my autobiography How to Fall Asleep in Ten Minutes or Less.

Ideal partner Hopefully close at hand!

The first thing I notice about someone Their smile and their eyes.

I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) The IRS is chasing me and I am having trouble finding a good exterminator for the home!

I don’t believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in the powerful connection with another person that can occur on first sight.

Fail-safe date plan To be on time, well-rested, and have a properly planned activity or event.

On first dates, I’m usually a bit shy and reserved.

Meet the parents When they express the desire to meet them!

The last thing I did to impress a date was juggle! Another remnant of a misspent youth.

Dating in Chicago is great because the city makes the process of finding what to do and where to go so darn easy!

What makes me an ideal date It’s certainly doubtful that I am the “ideal” date, however, I will always be a gentleman!

Andrea Zamudio

Andrea Zamudio 31 Assistant Manager of Sales Strategy for Quaker

On the side Habitat for Humanity

Hometown Bogotá, Colombia

Current neighborhood River North

Height 5’ 1 ½”



My family is my heart and strength. Everything I have accomplished or overcome is because of them.

Friends would say I’m an optimist and eternal romantic.

Fun fact I went paragliding in Brazil. I actually ran off a cliff and landed on the beach!

Secret talent Breaking kitchen appliances.

Hobbies Traveling to new places and salsa dancing.

Ideal Saturday night Getting together with friends and sharing some drinks and laughs.

Role model Nona (my grandmother) because she was the epitome of strength, beauty, and grace.

Childhood ambition A teacher or Madonna’s back-up dancer.

Happiest day of my life Receiving my MBA and sharing it with my friends and family.

Career highlight Winning PepsiCo’s highest sales performance award, the President’s Ring of Honor.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My little brother sewed me a scarf last Christmas. It was the sweetest gift ever!

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Throw my parents a surprise party for their 25^th wedding anniversary, mariachi serenade and all!

If I could have any talent, it would be to sing.

Fantasy travel destination Greece.

First job Working as a Summer Camp Counselor.

Guilty pleasure Reality TV. I love America’s Next Top Model marathons!

I can talk for hours about Spanish telenovelas/ soap operas.

Nickname Angie.

Ideal partner Smart, funny, passionate, and full of surprises.

The first thing I notice about someone is their smile.

Deal breakers I’ve learned to never say never!

The last thing I did to impress a date Cook him dinner.

On first dates, I’m usually pretty nervous and sometimes forget my date’s name.

The thing about myself I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) is I forgot their name!

Andreas Schreiner

Andreas Schreiner 31 General Manager of Restaurant Operations, Elysian Hotel Chicago

Hometown Puerto Rico

Current neighborhood Lakeshore East

Height 6’



My family is my inspiration.

Friends would say I’m very passionate.

Fun fact I grew up on an island.

I love my job because I get to work with my favorite things: food, wine and people.

I love Chicago because the people are awesome.

Secret talent I give a mean back massage.

Life motto Everything happens for a reason.

Hobbies Traveling, cooking and anything involving cocktails on a beach.

Ideal Saturday night Depends on the weather and the company!

On my day off, you’ll find me…Day off…what’s that?

Role model My father.

If I won the lottery Obvious, of course…I’d go to Disney World.

If I could have any talent I guess everyone wants to fly…cuts down on travel costs.

Fantasy travel destination Thailand.

First job Bussing tables.

Guilty pleasure Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream.

I wish I’d known at 21 that Time starts to go waayyy to fast.

In 10 years, I see myself In an eternal Corona commercial.

I can talk for hours about Food.

Favorite neighborhood Bucktown/Wicker Park.

Ideal partner She’s got to be around here somewhere!

The thing about myself I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) is…Gosh, not much, I’m pretty open.

I believe in love at first sight because It actually happened once.

On first dates, I’m usually myself

Dating in Chicago is great because Everyone seems more down to earth.

What makes me an ideal date I believe if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be, so let’s just have a good time.

Andy Rosenband

Andy Rosenband 28 President, MorganLi, LLC

Hometown Chicago

Current neighborhood River North

Height 5’8”



Passion The game of soccer.

Happiest day of my life Being drafted to play in the MLS (Major League Soccer) after my senior season in college.

My family is The most important thing in my life.

I love my job because Every day we find different ways to help Wal-Mart’s efforts toward sustainability by extending the lifecycle of store fixtures.

Passion The game of soccer.

I love Chicago because of the people.

Life motto Work hard every day of your life.

Hobby Playing golf.

On my day off, you’ll find me on the golf course.

Role model Is and always has been Michael Jordan.

Childhood ambition Doctor.

Happiest day of my life Being drafted to play in the MLS (Major League Soccer) after my senior season in college.

Career highlight Scoring a goal against the top team in Chile my rookie season.

If I could have any talent, it would be to sing.

Fantasy travel destination Palm Beach, Florida.

First job Working in my father’s manufacturing plant.

Guilty pleasure Oreos.

I can talk for hours about Sports.

Nickname Aro.

Favorite neighborhood Bucktown/Wicker Park.

Ideal partner Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and has a sense of humor.

The first thing I notice about someone Their smile.

What makes me an ideal date I’m easy going.

Anthony Fiore

Anthony Fiore 31 V.P., Open Kitchens Inc.; Owner, Elate at the Hotel Felix

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood Bucktown

Height 6 feet



My family is a very close-knit Italian family.

Friends would say I’m outgoing and always smiling.

I love my job because I love to meet new people and help my community.

Passion Skiing and being on the water (boat or surf board).

I love Chicago because the city itself is beautiful and I truly find it to be a big little city (which is good and bad in some cases).

Secret talent I used to play the drums in a band.

Life motto Everything works out.

Ideal Saturday night A great dinner, nice wine and good friends.

On my day off, you’ll find me skiing in the winter and on my boat in the summer.

First job Working at a boat rental in Busse woods.

My ideal partner Athletic and easy to get along with. She would have to snow ski.

Meet the parents I would introduce someone to my parents or family on the first date as long as things were going well. I love my family and it would not be strange to meet anyone of them for a drink when I’m out and about in the city.

What makes me an ideal date I’m usually down for anything.

Arnie Becker

Arnie Becker 38 The Men’s Club, founder and CEO

On the side Imerman Angels

Hometown Northbrook, Illinois

Current neighborhood West Loop

Height 5’4”



My family Is loving and engaging.

Friends would say I’m generous, thoughtful and warm.

Fun fact I was recently interviewed on Oprah’s couch!

I love my job because It enables me to meet many ambitious, good-hearted people. The Men’s Club provides me the opportunity to enhance the lives of others by increasing their business and social network. All at the same time, our membership raises funds and awareness for Imerman Angels.

Passion Self-improvement.

I love Chicago because Nothing beats the city in the summer.

Secret talent Being able to make a connection with all types of people.

Life motto Everything works out for the best.

Hobbies Collecting art, driving my convertible and working out.

Ideal Saturday night Spending time with that special someone. It doesn’t matter where we are, as long as we’re together.

On my day off, you’ll find me at the gym, Costco or an art gallery.

Role models My parents.

Childhood ambition Joining the family business, Wolfy’s Hotdogs.

Happiest day of my life Receiving my MBA diploma.

Career highlight The validation I received after one of our successful TMC events. The positive feedback was immense. I am also very proud when I see a spark of excitement/interest in new and prospective TMC members when they experience or learn about The Men’s Club.

Kindest thing anyone ever did for me Believe in me.

Kindest thing I ever did for someone else Believed in their abilities and offered them an avenue to succeed.

If I could have any talent, it would be to correct my mistakes before making them.

Fantasy travel destination Driving the coast of California while visiting wineries.

First job My father’s hotdog restaurant, Wolfy’s.

Guilty pleasure Cigars and scotch.

I wish I’d known at 21 Everything works out for the best.

At parties, I’m always the best-looking person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself still having the positive energy and ambition I have today.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove is their lack of sincerity.

I can talk for hours about The Men’s Club and our mission.

Nickname Arnie B.

Favorite neighborhood West Loop

Title of my autobiography You Can Always Be Better.

Ideal partner Attractive, down-to-earth, laid-back, warm and confident.

The first thing I notice about someone Their positive attitude.

The thing about myself I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) is my ability to read minds.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it is important to get to know someone first.

Fail-safe first date plan Wine and chocolate cake.

On first dates I’m usually a perfect gentleman.

Deal breaker Someone who has a bad attitude towards others.

Meet the parents When I know my parents are out of town!

The last thing I did to impress a date Was to be myself.

Dating in Chicago is great because there are so many exceptional women.

What makes me an ideal date is I have A LOT to offer.

Brooke A. Skinner

Brooke A. Skinner 29 Senior Vice President Global Director of Strategic Planning, Draftfcb

On the side Board Member, Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation (CAASE); Associate Board Member, Midwest Eye Bank; Volunteer: Center on Halsted; Howard Brown Health Center

Hometown Louisville, Kentucky

Current neighborhood Buena Park

Height 5’5”



My family Is my inspiration.

Friends would say I’m genuine

I love my job because It’s all about thinking, problem solving and the world.

Passion Knowing and traveling the world

I love Chicago because Despite the cold, it is one of the warmest cities in the world.

Life motto The next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing.

Hobbies Cooking (and eating), reading, writing, traveling.

Ideal Saturday night A big round table with my best friends, a delicious meal and many bottles of fabulous wine.

On my day off You’ll find me in/on/around Lake Michigan.

Role models My grandparents

Childhood ambition A cowgirl.

Happiest day of my life Is yet to come

Career highlight Being asked to step into my mentor’s job when she retired.

Fantasy travel Maldives

First job Summer camp counselor.

Guilty pleasure Ice cream. My favorite food group.

At parties, I’m always the person laughing.

In 10 years, I see myself as happy as I am today.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove is Advertising is for cool people!

Nickname Spill. My mother called me that as a child and it still applies! I’m hopelessly clumsy.

Favorite neighborhood Andersonville.

Ideal partner Kind, intelligent, light-hearted.

The first thing I notice about someone Wit and charm

The thing about myself I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) is The amount of information I’m spilling in this interview!

I don’t believe in love at first sight because There’s always so much more than meets the eye.

Fail-safe date plan Art Institute, dinner at Avec.

First dates I’m usually intensely curious.

Deal breakers Someone who takes themselves too seriously.

The last thing I did to impress a date Write her a story.

What makes me an ideal date is I love getting to know other people.

Chris Olsen

Chris Olsen 26 Freight Broker and Executive Director, Receptions for Research: The Greg Olsen Foundation

Hometown Wayne, New Jersey

Current neighborhood The Loop

Height 6’3



My family Is my inspiration.

Friends would say I’m entertaining and fun to be around.

Fun fact I was a theater major at The University of Virginia.

I love my job because Every day is new and exciting and I get to work with a number of great, young people on an everyday basis.

Passionate Fighting to find a cure for breast cancer.

I love Chicago because It’s a big city with a small town feel. The people are extremely friendly compared to when I lived in New York City.

Secret talent I think I can sing country music, but I’m really not very good.

Life motto Work hard, party hard.

Hobbies Hanging with my friends and my dog, Heisman.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner and drinks at Hub 51, concert at Joe’s Bar on Weed Street, late night stop into Sub 51 and capping it all of with drive-thru from Rock N Roll McDonald’s.

On my day off, you’ll find me at Hub 51, Joe’s Bar, Joe’s Crab House, Mother Hubbards, Soldier Field and Houndstooth.

Hero My mother.

Childhood ambition Football coach.

Happiest day of my life The day I decided to move to Chicago.

Career highlight Signing my first client.

What would make my life complete I feel like my life is almost complete.

If I won the lottery I’d travel to Bora Bora, Australia, Dubai, South Africa, Singapore and Thailand.

If I could have any talent, it would be the ability to sleep with my eyes open.

Fantasy travel destination Anywhere warm.

First job In sales for a health club back home in New Jersey.

My guilty pleasure Gossip Girl.

I wish I’d known at 21 That social media was going to be the wave of the future and I had the knowledge to build it.

At parties, I’m always the most entertaining person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself being very successful and happy.

I can talk for hours about Football.

Nickname @CwOllie (my twitter name).

Favorite neighborhood River North.

Title of my autobiography He Came, He Saw, He Partied.

Ideal partner Someone who enjoys the Chicago nightlife and shares my passion for country music and sports.

The first thing I notice about someone Their ability to grab my attention without making a scene to get that attention.

I’d never spill on a first date I enjoy watching romantic comedies over any other genre of movies.

I believe in love at first sight because I feel like I will know she is the right one the first time I see her.

Fail-safe date plan Dinner and drinks somewhere quiet.

On first dates, I’m usually pretty reserved and open -minded.

Deal breaker Someone who didn’t want to date me for me.

Meet the parents When I get to know them better and believe they would take me to meet there parents.

The last thing I did to impress a date was tell her how my beagle snuggles with me every night. I don’t really know if it really impressed her though.

Chicago dating perks There are so many different types of women in the city, no matter your taste, you are going to be able to find someone you connect with.

What makes me an ideal date I have a knack for having a good time, and usually find the most fun and exciting places to go.

Corri McFadden

Corri McFadden 28 Owner/Founder, Edrop-off Express

On the side Each month I donate items we can not sell on our site to St. Joseph Closing Closet. I also volunteer for the Homeless Coalition in Chicago.

Hometown Kansas City

Current neighborhood Gold Coast

Height 5’9”



My family is priority.

Friends would say I’m driven and self-motivated.

Fun fact I started my company when I was 22 without any outside support and now have built Chicago’s premier one-stop-drop ebay store.

I love my job because I am surrounded by fashion!

Passion Making a difference.

I love Chicago because The people and the energy of the city.

Secret talent Resolving on-the-spot fashion emergencies.

Life motto Keep calm and carry on.

Hobbies Skateboarding, shopping and taking care of my yorkies!

Ideal Saturday night Relaxing with my close friends and not working!

On my day off, you’ll find me at work! I am a workaholic.

Role model My mother. She has inspired me to be the best I can be each and every day.

Childhood ambition Fashion designer.

Happiest day of my life Finishing college and then immediately starting my own business.

Career highlight Opening the doors to Edrop-off everyday.

The thing that would make my life complete is It is!

If I won the lottery I’d have the largest advertising budget for my business ever!

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Giving me the “push” to start my business.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Kindness is better left unspoken.

If I could have any talent, it would be to dance!

Fantasy travel destination I have so many! As long as there’s no camping involved, I’m in!

First job Bagging groceries.

Guilty pleasure Intermix and Barneys.

I wish I’d known at 21 I was dating a loser!

At parties, I’m always the youngest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself helping others live out their passions.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove People who work in fashion are self-centered.

I can talk for hours about Chanel, Prada, Lanvin, Alexander McQueen…Shall I continue?

Favorite Chicago neighborhood Gold Coast – I love the energy and the buzz!

The title of my autobiography From Blow Pops to Big Bucks.

My ideal partner Is understanding.

The first thing I notice about someone Their personal style .

I’d never spill on a first date I own my own business. Men are easily intimidated.

Fail-safe date plan Just to be myself.

On first dates, I am calm and open-minded.

Deal breakers Someone who wears Ed Hardy and doesn’t like dogs.

Meet the parents When they are open and honest with me.

The last thing I did to impress a date Ride on a motorcycle.

Dating in Chicago is great because The city is filled with amazing, talented people

What makes me an ideal date I will always be the best-dressed in the room!

David Dworshak

David Dworshak 32 Executive Sous Chef, Carnivale Restaurant

On the side Multiple charity events through Carnivale.

Hometown Pensacola, Florida

Current neighborhood Ukranian Village

Height 5’11”



Fun fact I love to dance.

I love my job because I can remain active and creative.

Passion Music.

I love Chicago because Its diversity in culture, people and food.

Secret talent Urban gardening.

Hobbies Snowboarding and surfing.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner and show (music or comedy).

On my day off, you’ll find me Relaxing with friends or exploring Chicago.

Role model Dan Barber, chef/food activist, Blue Hill, NYC.

Childhood ambition Marine biologist.

If I won the lottery I’d travel the world.

If I could have any talent, it would be To be multilingual.

Fantasy travel destination Costa Rica.

Guilty pleasure Chocolate.

At parties, I’m always the warmest person in the room.

Favorite neighborhood Logan Square.

Ideal partner Open-minded, unique and fun.

The first thing I notice about someone Their eyes.

On first dates, I’m usually slightly nervous, but warm up quickly.

Deal breaker Closed-mindedness.

Last thing I did to impress a date Cook them a romantic dinner.

Dating in Chicago is great because There is always something new to do, and new places to see.

What makes me an ideal date There will never be a dull moment.

David Rothstein

David Rothstein 43 Owner, David Rothstein Music, Inc.

On the side Share Your Love

Hometown Chicago/Elk Grove Village, Illinois

Current neighborhood Roscoe Village

Height 5’11



My family is supportive, brilliant, creative and quirky!

Friends would say I’m creative, hard-working, innovative and passionate.

Fun fact I’m a huge Marx Brothers fan.

The greatest thing about my job Getting to play the music I love with amazing musicians. I really enjoy the marketing aspects of the business. I also love the challenge of getting to adding personal touches to make every wedding or event unique. Watching 300 people dancing like crazy to my band always makes me smile! The very best part is giving so many musicians so much work.

Passions Photography, bike riding, working out and helping my friends.

I love Chicago because It has all the action of NYC with much friendlier people.
NYC = Espresso, L.A. = Latte, Chicago = Cappuccino. It’s all here if you want it, but it’s not in your face every day.

Secret talents Photography, writing, doing impersonations and dancing.

Life motto Nothing great was ever accomplished without enthusiasm.

Favorite hobbies Working out, Web sites, high-tech gadgets, politics, movies, traveling, museums, Facebook, finding great restaurants.

Ideal Saturday night Leading my 11-piece orchestra, performing for 300 guests, having fun with my special girl or hanging out with friends.

On my day off, you’ll find me doing whatever I want.

Role models My grandparents, who were married 71 years. They lived to 94 and 91. He went to med school at age 15. I think about them often.

Childhood ambition Musician. I played the violin at the time. Wiry hair, pimples, braces and playing the violin. Quite a package! My dimples did bail me out.

Happiest day of my life Performing a concert with the Glenn Miller Orchestra in Buenos Aires for 25,000 people. We were mobbed after the show, signed autographs et cetera… It was amazing!

Career highlight Touring with the Glenn Miller Orchestra for two years. We played in Japan, South America and throughout the U.S. What an experience!

The thing that would make my life complete Getting married to someone I truly love.

If I won the lottery, I’d try to help to as many of my friends as possible who are suffering and take 500 underprivileged kids to a Cubs game. I’d also love to sponsor a little league baseball team.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Give me a second chance even when I didn’t deserve it.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Start a jazz education program for inner city kids out of my own pocket.

If I could have any talent, it would be to have an incredible memory.

Fantasy travel destination Italy, Greece or Hawaii. I have been to 23 countries, but there are so many amazing places still to see!

First job Cleaning parks for the Schaumburg Park District the summer before college.

Guilty pleasure Pizza and pasta.

I wish I’d known at 21 To not rely on other people to define who you are.

At parties, I’m always the person who talks to everyone in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself living on the Northshore, married with kids and performing only the events I want to perform, traveling once a month.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove is That we just get together and play music. There are hundreds of hours of prep work that goes into every event.

I can talk for hours about Marketing, music, current events, but I’d rather listen. I learn more that way.

Nickname David Lee Rothstein.

Favorite neighborhood Roscoe Village.

Title of my autobiography Four Weddings and a BarMitzvah: My Adventures in the Music Business.

Ideal partner Both passionate and compassionate about life. A big heart, sense of humor and an adorable smile goes a long way with me.

The first thing I notice about someone A sense of kindness in her eyes.

I’d never spill on a first date Info about former girlfriends.

I believe in love at first sight because There has to be that spark and connection that both people feel. The key is to find more ways to keep that spark going.

Fail-safe date plan Make her feel comfortable and just to be herself. Keep it casual and fun.

On first dates, I’m usually entertaining, but try to be authentic.

Deal breakers Someone who is full of themselves. We were born with two ears and one mouth for a reason.

Meet the parents When it feels right.

The last thing I did to impress a date Brought her one of my photos.

Dating in Chicago is great because There are so many beautiful women, great ways of meeting them and interesting things to do.

What makes me an ideal date I’m a good listener, I have lots of stories and I love great conversation.

David Shersher

David Shersher 28 General surgery resident

On the side Friends of the IDF

Hometown New York, New York

Current neighborhood Printers Row

Height 5’8”



My family is originally Russian speaking, multicultural, and extremely important to me.

Friends would say I’m outgoing, social, interested in learning, and dedicated.

Fun fact In addition to speaking Russian, I learned to speak Spanish in Argentina while living in Buenos Aires for some time.

I love my job because no one day is the same as the next. I am constantly challenged, taught new things, and given opportunity to see myself improve weekly with clinical and nonclinical skills. I am fortunate to be working with a special group of physicians and health care providers and love to learn from my patients.

Passion International travel, food, music (including piano) and dance.

I love Chicago because of the people I have met while living here for the past year and a half. Chicagoans are outgoing, friendly and interesting.

Secret talent Playing piano, massage (although that is a very secret talent).

Life motto Treat others like you want to be treated.

Hobbies Skiing, dining, exercise, art.

Idea Saturday night A good meal, some drinks with friends at a lounge that hopefully progresses into some dancing. It depends on the night and the mood.

On my day off, you’ll find me running around the city meeting friends for brunches, museum hopping, or just relaxing at home with a cup of espresso.

Role model My father, who came to America with nothing and has worked to attain everything.

Childhood ambition Doctor. At least at that time it was a hope.

Happiest day of my life When my little brother was born. I try to make every day a good day.

Career highlight Tough to tell… when one of my patients walks out of the hospital after major surgery, it makes me proud.

The thing that would make my life complete Finding a good relationship. I feel like my life is otherwise very complete.

If I won the lottery, I’d do more charity donation and travel.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me was providing me the opportunity to be a young, working physician living in a major metropolitan city. My parents never had these same opportunities.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else was support them in times of depression and need. I have had a number of situations when I have played host to help friends and acquaintances deal with personal disasters.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be able to sing.

Fantasy travel destination Africa.

First job Computer builder.

Guilty pleasure Food. Quality food with quality wine.

I wish I’d known at 21 Sake has more alcohol content than wine.

At parties, I’m always the talkative person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself with a family, balancing an involved home life with a dynamic surgical career, spending some time each year traveling and providing doctoring services elsewhere.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove is greed.

I can talk for hours about politics.

Nickname Shersher.

Favorite neighborhood Probably Old Town.

Title of my autobiography Where The Wild Things Are: A Daily Adventure.

Ideal partner Interesting, attractive, balanced, well-traveled and experienced.

The first thing I notice about someone Their eye contact and body language.

I’d never spill on a first date Past relationship experience.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because love is something that develops with time. Once it arrives, it is insatiable. But I definitely believe in passion on the first date!

Fail-safe date plan Not to be disclosed here, or otherwise it will lose its mystique.

On first dates, I’m usually one to spoil and properly treat a woman.

Deal breakers Someone who does not say thank you after I take her out.

Meet the parents When I feel like the relationship will move forward and has potential to become serious.

The last thing I did to impress a date A romantic home cooked meal.

Dating in Chicago is great because of the infinite number of options of places to explore. I love to experience new places with new people.

What makes me an ideal date I really try to make my date feel special.

Dominic Gaziano

Dominic Gaziano 44 Internal medicine physician; owner, Salute Winebar & Café

On the side Midwest Film Festival, American Cancer Society

Hometown Charleston, West Virginia

Current neighborhood Lincoln Park

Height 5’ 10”



My family is a gregarious Italian family.

Friends would say I’m social and creative

Fun fact I am an introvert but appear as an extrovert.

I love my job because I get to individualize treatment for a whole variety of patients.

I love Chicago because It’s diverse and creative.

Secret talent Cooking.

Life motto Nothing is impossible.

Hobbies Film making.

Ideal Saturday night Going to an exotic restaurant and connecting with someone special.

On my day off, you’ll find me getting away on a quick day trip

Role model Michael Crichton, a doctor and a great writer.

Childhood ambition Diplomat.

Happiest day of my life Traveling on Pacific Coast Highway One on my birthday

Career highlight The opening of Salute Winebar & Cafe

The thing that would make my life complete is a mate.

If I won the lottery, I’d travel the world with a film crew.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My parents raised me.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Save their life.

If I could have any talent, it would be acting. Then I could be whoever I wanted to be.

Fantasy travel destination Thailand.

First job Lifeguard.

Guilty pleasure Eating late night fast food.

I wish I’d known at 21 I had to save.

At parties, I’m always the first person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself happy with someone special.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove Cynicism

I can talk for hours about people.

Nickname Zooty.

Favorite Chicago neighborhood Streeterville.

Title of my autobiography Capri Diem.

Ideal partner Independent, caring and sharp.

The first thing I notice about someone Their confidence.

I’d never spill on a first date All the things I do.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it takes time to get to know someone on a deeper level.

Fail-safe date plan A fun, non-pretentious, quiet dinner place.

On first dates, I usually say too much.

Deal breaker Someone who is closed minded.

Meet the parents when I want to see her more than anyone else.

The last thing I did to impress a date was say too much.

Dating in Chicago is great because there are great restaurant to take them to get to know them.

What makes me an ideal date I can talk about anything.

Edgartt J. Melton

Edgartt J. Melton 37 Kraft Foods, Sr. Manager, Sales Technology

On the side Chicago Child Care Society and Chicago Urban League

Hometown Monroe, Louisiana

Current neighborhood Bronzeville

Height 5’11”



My family is Pretty funny folks. My parents could have been part time comedians. They are always cracking jokes. Both of them are very friendly. My son, Blake, is very friendly. Comedy 24x7. Not afraid of much. Very discerning.

Friends would say I’m extremely loyal and ornery.

Fun fact I have Psalms 23 Verse 1-6 tattooed on my left forearm.

I love my job because Kraft has a lot of great products.

Passion Helping others solve problems and achieving their dreams.

I love Chicago because It’s clean, lots of culture and the people are pretty friendly.

Secret talent Pretty good cook and marksman, and good advisor to friends.

Life motto When I am off, I am off. It’s not how you start it’s how you finish! If you are not ready then get ready!

Hobbies Reading, outdoors activities, etiquette studies, generating ideas - my best friend calls me the mad scientist.

On my day off, you’ll find me at Third World Cafe in Hyde Park or Bronzeville Coffee House.

Role model My daddy. The Reginald F. Lewis. Steve Beard (best friend/big brother).

Childhood ambition An F-14 Tomcat Fighter Pilot

Happiest day of my life When my mom and dad told me I “had done good” by graduating from with my master’s from Northwestern. This has significance because I was pretty bad growing up. One day my mother called me and asked “When did I decide to change?” I will never forget – I was walking down Michigan Avenue when she asked and I broke down crying and said, “I wanted to make you and Daddy proud.”

Career highlight Getting promoted to manager at PricewaterhouseCoopers, which is quite a feat for blacks. I was one of five black client service mangers in one of the firm’s largest office (1400+) and one of three in my discipline nationally.

The thing that would make my life complete Closer relationship with God; Wife; Successful entrepreneur.

If I won the lottery, I’d Pay the loan off on my church. Give my parents whatever they want and take them around the world in grand fashion. Pay for my son’s entire education from undergrad through his graduate studies.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Two of my dearest friends took it upon themselves to have a 30th birthday party for me at Grand Lux. Much to my surprise it ended up being a roast. A PowerPoint presentation was assembled with funny stories and quotes of me putting my foot in my mouth.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else When I was a young boy my best friend in the whole world complained that he was cold at night. So I took a space heater from our home and gave it to him. He had a small room in the back of his grandmother’s house. My mom asked what happened to the heater and I hunched my shoulders and said I don’t know. Well, my best friend lived across the street and when my mom went to visit his grandmother on behalf of the church she saw the heater. When she told me she saw the heater I cried because I thought a spanking was coming for lying. She gave me a hug and said we should always help the less fortunate.

If I could have any talent, it would be Prevent people from getting hurt

Fantasy travel destination China. Australia. Portugal (done!).

First job Cutting grass and Corn Dog 7.

Guilty pleasure Dave and Busters.

I wish I’d known at 21 How I should really be measuring myself

At parties, I’m always one of two extremes – the joker or the wallflower.

In 10 years, I see myself with a successful portfolio of business and married.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove We are not fun.

I can talk for hours about My friends and mentees.

Nickname That Bad Ass Little Boy!

Favorite neighborhood Hyde Park.

Title of my autobiography The Follies of Ed, Edgar and Edgartt.

Ideal partner God fearing Christian. Giving. Community-service driven (knows the importance of helping others). Proud of heritage/family. Fiercely loyal.

The first thing I notice about someone is Body

I’d never spill on a first date I don’t know. If a person asks, I will tell. Yes, I am an open book. Like it now or like it later…

I believe in love at first sight because It’s the primitive way. We look for certain attributes that heighten our arousal with the absence of reason. Then we judge if the person is a good fit for our world

Fail-safe date plan is Does not exist! Every woman is different and has her likes and dislikes.

On first dates, I’m usually doing a lot of listening.

Deal breakers Smokes or does nothing for others.

Meet the parents when I am in love with them.

The last thing I did to impress a date wasFound out what their interests are and center the theme of the evening around that.

Life is what you make it. You can’t blame a city for your dating life. If you ask the right questions you can find out if it’s worth dating the person or keeping them in the friend zone.

What makes me an ideal date I’m a traditional guy (man’s man). Gentleman. Low maintenance. Do more listening than talking. Multifaceted – I can start at Park 52 for drinks; have dinner at Nomi; hit a karaoke bar; roll to Religion for dancing (FKA 720); and wrap up the night at Harold Chickens.

Erica Bethe Levin

Erica Bethe Levin 26 Co-Founder and Editor-in-Chief, CheekyChicago.com

On the side Correspondent for NBCChicago.com, Jetsetter.com and Backstage.com. Committee Member, Taste of the Nation.

Hometown West Palm Beach, Florida

Current neighborhood Lincoln Park

Height 5’4”

My family A little bit country, a little bit rock ‘n’ roll and a whole bunch of crazy/beautiful.

Friends would say I’m a little bit dorky, a little bit OCD, but hopefully funny, generous and kind as well.

Fun fact I cannot eat anything white and creamy – sour cream, mayonnaise, yogurt, cream cheese, ranch dressing, etc. And the weirdest part is…I haven’t even tasted half of those things.

The great thing about my job I get to do what I love each and every day. There is nothing better than writing about the city I love best in this world, especially when my writings are about the food, nightlife and culture of this amazing town.

Passion My family, my friends and my puppy, Pippin (named after the Tony Award-winning Broadway musical of the 1970s, not the sports player).

I love Chicago because It’s practically perfect in every way. It’s clean, culturally relevant, full of things to do, it’s got a beach and a city skyline and I am never, ever bored.

Secret talent Playing the piano and cooking.

Life motto Without the bitter, baby, the sweet ain’t as sweet.

Hobbies Reading, traveling, acting like a tourist in my own city, cooking, biking and singing along to my showtunes.

Ideal Saturday night Ordering sushi and watching a week’s worth of DVR.

On my day off, you’ll find me on Michigan Avenue. Bloomingdale’s, please.

Role model My mom.

Childhood ambition Actress.

Career highlight The day I launched CheekyChicago.com, October 21, 2008.

If I won the lottery, I’d probably run away and live in a villa in Tuscany.

First job A hostess at a restaurant called The Players Club. It’s not at all what it sounds like.

Guilty pleasure A whole box of spaghetti with homemade marinara sauce.

I wish I’d known at 21 Learning from your mistakes is actually a good thing.

I can talk for hours about My dog, Chicago and food.

Favorite neighborhood Lincoln Park to live and Wrigleyville to watch baseball (go Cubs!).

My ideal partner makes me laugh. Non-stop. Period.

The first thing I notice about someone Confidence, a sense of humor and maybe a cute tush!

Fail-safe date plan A happy hour drink. It doesn’t last long if the date isn’t going well or it leaves you wanting more if it is.

Deal breaker Someone who smokes.

What makes me an ideal date I actually really, really love to eat. No salads for me!

Fabrice Calmels

Fabrice Calmels 29 Lead Dancer, Joffrey Ballet

Hometown Paris, France Current neighborhood Wrigleyville

Height 6’6”



My family is fun.

Friends would say I’m crazy.

Fun fact I eat Nutella in the middle of the night.

The great thing about my job The excitement of performing in front of large audience.

Passion Helping other dancers (www.30secondsofdance.com).

I love Chicago because It’s a better version of New York City.

Secret talent Cooking.

Life mottto Give 200 percent everyday.

Hobbies Video editing, home improvement, playing guitar.

Ideal Saturday night Hanging out at Coopers with my best friend Sam.

On my day off, you’ll find me in front of my computer.

Role model Gene Kelly.

Happiest day of my life Meeting Nelle, my niece.

Career highlight Dancing Othello.

The thing that would make my life complete A family of my own.

If I won the lottery, I’d exile myself.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be a dancer!

Fantasy travel destination Japan.

First job Dancing for the Pennsylvania Ballet.

Guilty pleasure Nutella.

I wish I’d known at 21 My first girlfriend did not love me.

At parties, I’m always the tallest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself helping the City of Chicago growing its Arts Community

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove Drama.

I can talk for hours about 1968 Dodge Charger, Brett Favre and Michael Jackson.

Nickname Frenchyzorro.

Favorite neighborhood You cannot answer such question if you are a real Chicagoan (the whole city!).

Title of my autobiography I Spent My Life on Stage.

Ideal partner Secure and smart

The first thing I notice about someone Eye contact. You can tell a lot from someone’s eyes.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because appearances can be deceiving.

On first dates, I’m usually just observing a lot.

Deal breaker Dirty hands.

Meet the parents When my heart tell me so.

The last thing I did to impress a date I jumped a seat at the theatre. I ended up kicking someone in the head.

Dating in Chicago is tough because it’s too money related.

What makes me an ideal date My cooking skills.

Jackie Kim

Jackie Kim 46 President, Tiffani Kim Institute

On the side Serve lunch to the elderly at a church; Luncheon Committee for GNMAA, Children Memorial Hospital; have been chair person and volunteer for many organizations. Our company gets involved in most of client’s charities.

Hometown Seoul, Korea Current neighborhood Lincoln Park

Height 5’1”

My family is very close and loving.

Friends would say I’m funny.

Fun fact I love being a couch potato.

The great thing about my job Making people feel good.

Passion Traveling.

I love Chicago because It’s composed of small communities in a big city.

Secret talent Music.

Life motto Love life and appreciate everything.

Hobbies Watching movies.

Ideal Saturday night Some kind of entertainment and dining out.

On my day off, you’ll find me working out, reading, watching movies, cooking and napping.

Role model My mom and sister.

Childhood ambition Singer.

Happiest day of my life Getting my first job after graduating from college.

Career highlight When we opened Tiffani Kim Institute.

The thing that would make my life complete A soul mate.

If I won the lottery, I’d donate to the orphanages around the world.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me In an ice storm, my car spun around and fell into the ditch. These strangers, who were driving behind me, stayed by the roadside until the tow truck pulled my car out of the ditch.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Defended helpless person against bullies.

If I could have any talent, it would be singing in a musical.

Fantasy travel destination Egypt.

First job Making happy meals at McDonald’s at the age of 15.

Guilty pleasure Croissants.

I wish I’d known at 21 Things always work out for the best, so don’t sweat it.

At parties, I’m always the person dancing.

In 10 years, I see myself building three more TKI and traveling more.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove is We are all about the outside beauty.

I can talk for hours about Books I’ve read and the places I’ve been.

Nickname Jack.

Favorite neighborhood is Lincoln Park.

Title of my autobiography You are the Star in your Life.

My ideal partner is honest.

The first thing I notice about someone Their eyes.

I’d never spill on a first date I’m a tomboy.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it’s what’s inside their heart that makes them attractive.

Fail-safe date plan Not having a plan.

On first dates, I’m usually easy-going.

Deal breaker Superficiality.

Meet the parents When I’m sure.

What makes me an ideal date I have an open mind.

Jason Paskewitz

Jason Paskewitz 38 Chef/Partner, Gemini Bistro

Hometown Astoria, Queens

Current neighborhood West Loop

Height 6’



My family is The most important thing in the world

Friends would say I’m out of my mind.

Fun fact I sometimes listen to country music.

I love my job because I get to do what I love.

Passion New York Yankees.

I love Chicago because of all the funny accents!

Secret talent I can juggle.

Hobby Golfing with Ryan, my business partner.

Ideal Saturday night 250 covers, no re-fires.

On my day off, you’ll find me spending time with my son.

Role model My dad.

Childhood ambition Baseball player or astronaut.

Happiest day of my life When my son was born.

Career highlight Opening Gemini Bistro.

If I won the lottery, I’d retire – for real!

If I could have any talent, it would be to play the piano.

Fantasy travel destination A land called Honalee.

First job A paper route.

Guilty pleasure Manny’s Deli and Lemon Heads candy.

At parties, I’m always the funniest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself saying that “48 is the new 38.”

I can talk for hours about the Yankees and baseball.

Nickname Jay Love.

Favorite Chicago neighborhood Lincoln Park.

Title of my autobiography Just a Kid From Queens.

Ideal partner Funny, independent, career-oriented, good sense of humor.

T first thing I notice about someone Their shoes.

The thing about myself I’d never spill on a first date (without a few drinks!) is nothing! I’m pretty open and forthcoming.

I don’t believe in love at first sight.

Fail-safe date plan A baseball game.

On first dates, I’m usually very nervous.

Deal breaker Someone who takes themselves too seriously.

The last thing I did to impress a date Cook for her.

Dating in Chicago is great because Girls love a New York accent.

Dating in Chicago is tough because there are only two seasons; I like warm weather and being outdoors.

Jason Ream

Jason Ream 28 Marketing Manager

On the side Chicago Area Runner’s Association, St. Baldrick’s Foundation, CAASE

Hometown Burton, Ohio

Current neighborhood Lakeview

Height 6’



My family is the group of people I’m most proud to talk about.

Friends would say I’m carefree, funny/sarcastic, likeable and a great teammate.

Fun fact I can run a Beer Mile (drink four beers and run a mile) in seven minutes and 12 seconds.

I love my job because I get to work with all kinds of Chicago organizations putting together programs to make Chicago a better place to live, work and play.

Passion Running and supporting the running community.

I love Chicago because The people, the lakefront and the street festivals.

Secret talent Winning races dressed as Batman.

Hobbies Traveling, running and having drinks with friends.

On my day off, you’ll find me Tweeting (nosajmaer), drinking coffee, at the pub or reading the running blog, Last Laugh.

Role model My step dad.

Childhood ambition Professional baseball player.

Happiest day of my life When my sister got married.

If I won the lottery, I’d call a lawyer.

If I could have any talent, it would be the talent of negotiation.

Fantasy travel destination The Moon.

First job A bus boy.

Guilty pleasure Chipotle burritos.

I wish I’d known at 21 To dump all my money into Google.

At parties, I’m always one of the most engaging people in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself faster, richer and better looking.

I can talk for hours about my iPhone.

Nickname Creamers or Batman.

Favorite neighborhood Lincoln Park.

Title of my autobiography UnyieldingCrossroads.blogspot.com

Ideal partner Driven, independent, athletic, likes to travel, have fun and laugh.

The first thing I notice about someone Their attitude.

Fail-safe date plan Dinner and then relaxing at a wine bar.

The last thing I did to impress a date was make dinner.

Dating in Chicago is great because there are so many different people and things to do.

What makes me an ideal date My ability to have fun.

Jennifer Connor

Jennifer Connor 34 President, Mustard Girl All American Mustards

On the side RxArt.Net, Rehabilitation Institute Chicago, Cooper Connor Endowment Fund, Girl Scouts of America, Common Threads, John T. Jackson Foundation, Step Up, Madison Children’s Museum

Hometown Wausau, Wisconsin

Current neighborhood Lincoln Park

Height 5’8” (with heels!)



My family I love with all my heart. They are extraordinary, strong, awesome, Irish and are incredible dancers.

Friends would say I’m like the color yellow.

Fun fact I always drink upstream from the herd.

I love my job because I truly love making hotdogs happy with Mustard Girl Mustards! I feel so blessed and grateful to have found my mustard seed in life. I adore my mustard company and really find happiness spreading the joy of Mustard Girl to people’s tastebuds and hearts. I couldn’t ask for a better blessing in life.

Passion Life, the higher power, family, friends, nature, world peace, our nation, supporting our troops, our veterans, having strong leaders, our national parks and lakes, children, the great North, education, the arts, cooking, LEYE Restaurants, Mustard Girl, cheese brats and the Green Bay Packers.

I love Chicago because it’s truly one of the most stalwart cities in America! Chicago has the most salt of the earth and stimulating citizens, extraordinary beauty, rich history, incredible architecture, strong businesses, top of the line restaurants, amazing chefs, the fantastic art museums galleries and theater, and of course the greatest of all sports teams – besides the Brewers and Packers, of course. Those reasons, I believe, is what truly makes this city so dynamic and brings such energy to my heart! Let us not forget too that Chicago also has some of the best hot dogs in America and that definitely puts a big smile on this little Mustard Girl’s face too!

Secret talent I am very good at bird-calling.

Life mottos I have a few – one can never have enough! Long ago after I finally taught myself how to juggle after being a little bored. I thought to myself, ‘Wow, anyone can be a rock star, it is just how you juggle your rocks underneath the stars that makes you one.’ And that is so true in life, I have discovered! I also am a big fan of this motto: ‘Love many, trust few, always paddle your own canoe.’ ‘Li la lo le ( live laugh love learn),’ ‘To thine own self be true’ and last but not least, my tried and true, ‘Always have faith in your mustard seed, never give up and you too can move mountains!’

Hobbies Fishing, hunting, skeet shooting, berry picking, flower designing with my flower king Mike Gaffeny, meditating, bikram yoga, camping and sleeping underneath the stars up north, horseback riding, sailing, water skiing crosscountry and downhill, tennis, golf, off roading, playing the maracas, collecting rocks, hiking in nature, cooking with Mustard Girl Mustards, photography, and just really loving and celebrating the chi of everything that comes down my path and giving lots of Eskimo and Butterfly kisses to people wherever I may go.

Ideal Saturday night Filled with love and joy and a little rock and roll.

On my day off, you’ll find me learning something about life I didn’t already know.

Role model My parents, my higher power, mother Theresa, Gandhi, Dali Lama, Churchill, George Washington, Kit Carson, Eisenhower, Oprah, Teddy Roosevelt, Captain America, John Denver and Vince Lombardi.

Childhood ambition Rockstar. But to my dismay, I got kicked out of choir because I was tone deaf, which certainly put a big kibosh on everything.

Happiest day of my life When my brother was born and I started Mustard Girl.

Career highlight When I had a cowbell company, one of my bells made it in the Smithsonian, and when Mustard Girl was first accepted into her first grocery chain.

The thing that would make my life complete When I marry Ketchup Boy.

First job Working in a lumber mill.

I wish I’d known at 21 that was the real drinking age.

In 10 years, I see myself having a whole happy family condiment line!.

American Dreams still can come true, just don’t ever give up.

Favorite neighborhood I love them all so much! Each neighborhood is so individual and unique with its own special charm and beauty – that’s what makes Chicago so great as a whole.

Ideal partner A true American Cowboy, someone who adores Mustard Girl, can grab the bull by the horns and make things happen, someone who is chivalrous, gallant, well-mannered, polished, yet doesn’t mind getting a little dirty on the ranch. Someone who has good etiquette, and knows the ways of the stars. Someone who loves to love, and if he knows how to whistle and is a good dancer that is a plus. If he is honest and true, stellar at heart and can follow the lines in Rudyard Kipling’s poem, “If,” he will win my heart to the stars by far!

The first thing I notice about someone Their joie de vie in life – and twinkle in their eye.

I’d never spill on a first date I am a little attention deficit prone – but that’s okay as there will never be a dull moment!

Deal breakers A guy that doesn’t like: Mustard Girl Mustards, America, God, nature and rock n’ roll. If he can change a tire, make a fire and name the first five presidents of the U.S. that would be a plus, too!

Meet the parents After he has a good sense of how the stars shine in life and is able to beat me in backgammon at least once!

Dating in Chicago is great because There are so many things to do and you can really get to know someone that way – how adventuresome/no-nadventuresome that person is and happy/not so happy that person is and if the date goes south there are certainly many other selections around to choose from!

What makes me an ideal date If we go out for dinner to a hot dog stand, I’m a shoe in at really making his hot dog happy with Mustard Girl Mustard!

Kim Lichtenstein

Kim Lichtenstein 35 Founder and Co-Owner of k101 Agency

On the side On the board of directors for Step Up Women’s Network; Teach youth members at Boys and Girls Club of Chicago about entrepreneurialism through a program I created, “Young Tykeoons”; Founding partner of Stimulus Social Club

Hometown Born in Cape Town, South Africa; moved to Atlanta, Georgia at age 7

Current neighborhood West Loop

Height 5’8”



My family is the reason why I expect so much from others.

Friends would say I’ve grown up a lot in the past few years.

Fun fact I’m red and green color blind

I love my job because it allows me to constantly be engaged in projects I believe in and maintain a company culture I feel good about.

Passion Inspiring teens to embrace their individuality and know that as long as they are good people, marching to the beat of their own drum is a GOOD thing!

I love Chicago because I belong here.

Secret talent Super Shot basket ball game

Life motto If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change (thanks Wayne Dyer!).

Hobbies Running, watching Talk Soup, attending events/fundraisers, trying out new restaurants, perusing the aisles at my perfect retail trifecta – Dominick’s, Target and Home Depot.

Ideal Saturday night Either an awesome dinner and drinks OR hanging on the couch watching Dateline and eating chocolate chip cookies.

Day off You’ll find me hanging out with my dog, Spike.

Role model My Grandpa Jules – he is 95 years old, we email regularly and he sends me pictures of the sunsets in South Africa.

Childhood ambition To be famous.

Happiest day of my life The day I tasted Chick-Fil-A.

Career highlight At 27 years old when I got my first payment as a business owner.

The thing that would make my life complete Someone perfectly suited for me to share it with (and a couple of kids).

If I won the lottery, I’d tip 100% all of the time.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Fly to Chicago just for lunch.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone Finding someone a prom date in the 11^th hour.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be able to remember lyrics to songs, lines in movies…and to fly.

Fantasy travel destination A bungalow over the water in Bora Bora.

First job In high school at Glamour Shots!

Guilty pleasure is a bottle of wine and a marathon of Real World/Road Rules Challenge.

I wish I’d known at 21 That the Pittsburgh Steelers would win the Super Bowl in 2009 and that a blanket with sleeves could make me a gazillionaire.

At parties, I’m always one of the loudest people in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself with an awesome family and a thriving business.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove That we all like to double air kiss, namedrop and stab each other in the back (that’s only 50% of publicists!).

I can talk for hours about food.

Favorite neighborhood Chinatown.

Title of my autobiography This is my autobiography, it’s a book about me – Kim Lichtenstein, you may assume that there will be an abuse of run-on sentences based on this title, and rightfully so, but I’m not gonna use no double negatives.

Ideal partner Handsome, funny, smart, in a career that he loves, assertive (independent women like to be put in their place every once in a while), into travel and Chicago’s burgeoning restaurant scene, and can give me a run for my money in both Scrabble and on the track. I am also a big proponent of philanthropy, no matter how big or small, just recognizing that volunteering his time can change the world in some small way is HUGE for me.

One thing that attracts me to people Confidence.

I’d never spill on a first date I LOVE watching UFC/MMA

I do believe in love at first sight because that is what I expect will happen when I meet the right person.

Fail-safe date plan Drinks and food – I like both (even if the company is subpar, I’ll leave satiated).

On first dates, I’m usually relaxed and don’t try to show my feathers or inflate my personal resume…and I hope that the courtesy is reciprocated

Deal breakers Someone who smokes and/or doesn’t know how to tip

Meet the parents When he proves to have thick skin and isn’t afraid to voice his opinion no matter what the popular vote is in the Lichtenstein household.

The last thing I did to impress a date Go for many margaritas shortly after running a ½ marathon.

Dating in Chicago is tough because Kevin Bacon’s 6 Degrees of Separation doesn’t hold a candle to the social scene in this city.

What makes me an ideal date I’m not going to order a salad, unless that is what I really want to eat.

Kimberley Egonmwan

Kimberley Egonmwan 28 Attorney; Assistant Commissioner, City of Chicago Intergovernmental Affairs - Department of Aviation

On the side Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, Theta Omega Chapter; Bar Associations

Hometown Chicago Current neighborhood

Height 5’5 (and three-quarters)



My family is undoubtedly the single most important factor in my development as a well-rounded person.

Friends would say I’m kind-hearted, feminine and optimistic.

Fun fact I probably know more about sports than you!

Passion Traveling, politics and success of the people I love.

I love Chicago because Due to the fact that things don’t come easy for most people in Chicago, the effect is Chicago tends to produce the “best of the best” in every arena.

Life motto You only get one shot at this, so don’t live it as though it’s a dress rehearsal!

Hobbies Sports, movies and any other topic I can trash talk about (but, in a nice way!).

Ideal Saturday night Hanging out with someone I really get along with. We could be in just about any situation and still make it a good time.

Role model My mother, without a doubt! She raised me to know that there is a solution to every problem, and to always live up to my own expectations.

Childhood ambition An Olympic diver. Who knew?!

Fantasy travel destination Africa, where one half of my family is directly from.

First job Part of the summer cleaning crew at my alma mater, the U of C Lab Schools. I never put gum under my desk again!

Guilty pleasure Singing wildly to my friends and my dog, Bailey.

I wish I’d known at 21 If you don’t get your way, you can’t take it personally.

At parties, I’m always the considerate person in the room. I can’t stand to see people not engaged in the moment. I make sure everyone is involved and having a good time. That way, we all get in trouble together!

In 10 years, I see myself as a former Olympic champion. I know in my heart that I still have time to qualify for something!!

I can talk for hours about Sports or movies. I worked on the production staff of the Mike North Show while in law school where it was my job was to pre-interview celebrity guests and talk on-air. It was the best time of my life!

Nickname Kimi.

Title of my autobiography “That’s Life,” like the Frank Sinatra song, because my life so far has been pretty similar to the lyrics -- just not as many flops!

Ideal partner Happy with who he is, calm and thoughtful, and thrilled to be with me!

The first thing I notice about someone His smile, how he interacts with others and if he has a positive outlook on life in general.

I’d never spill on a first date Now, exactly how many people are going to read this again?!

I believe in love at first sight Only because I personally know someone it happened (very successfully) to. Otherwise, it would seem pretty far-fetched.

Fail-safe date plan Dinner and a movie. That way, if by chance the dinner part goes bad, you don’t really have to talk again for the rest of the night, do you?!

On first dates, I’m usually not nervous -- just myself.

Deal breaker Someone who is hyper-critical about EVERYTHING!

Meet the parents When they just seem like a good fit, that’s all.

The last thing I did to impress a date Secured great tickets to a game or event.

Dating in Chicago is great because it’s such a beautiful and lively city that’s filled with good people. AND Dating in Chicago is tough because people lead such busy lives, they don’t take the time to slow down.

What makes me an ideal date I try to make the best of any situation, and I’m a lot of fun!

Kip Lewis

Kip Lewis 43 Reporter/Anchor Comcast Sportsnet

Hometown East Lansing, Michigan

Current neighborhood River North

Height 5’11”



My family is what’s most important to me.

Friends would say I’m loyal.

I love my job because I get to meet a lot of interesting people.

I love Chicago because of all the great things it offers.

Life motto Treat others the way you want to be treated.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner and wine.

On my day off, you’ll find me doing errands, laundry and working out. Glamorous, I know.

Role model My parents.

Childhood ambition Pro football player.

Career highlight Covering a Super Bowl game that my dad coached in and won.

If I won the lottery, I’d retire and buy a place on the beach.

If I could have any talent, it would be to sing like Luther Vandross.

Fantasy travel destination Hawaii.

First job Working at Arby’s…I got fired.

Guilty pleasure Pizza.

I wish I’d known at 21 Life only gets better.

In 10 years, I see myself happy and in the perfect relationship.

Favorite neighborhood River North.

Ideal partner Independent, honest, family oriented and loves to laugh.

The first thing I notice about someone Their eyes.

I believe in love at first sight because anything is possible.

Deal breaker Someone who smokes.

The last thing I did to impress a date Dinner on the beach.

Dating in Chicago is tough because everyone seems so busy.

Kristen Tischhauser

Kristen Tischhauser 28 Account Supervisor, Grace Public Relations

On the side Executive Host Committee Member, Stimulus Social Club (SSC) and Marketing and Communications Committee Member, Chicago Children’s Advocacy Center (CCAC)

Hometown Bloomington, Illinois

Current neighborhood River West

Heigh: 5’7”



My family is the most amazing family in the world. They are very supportive, caring, and loads of fun. Without them, I wouldn’t be where I am today.

Friends would say I’m trustworthy, hard working, thoughtful and quirky.

Fun fact I can’t wink, after all these years of practice!

I love my job because it’s never boring and keeps you on your toes! And of course, my fabulous colleagues and wonderful clients!

I love Chicago because the people are real and it is truly a beautiful city (even in the winter).

Life motto If life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

Hobbies Yoga, traveling, reading autobiographies, going to concerts and vintage shopping.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner and wine with friends and then off to a concert.

On my day off, you’ll find me brunching with friends.

Role models My mother and father.

Childhood ambition I thought I’d be an actress when I grew up.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My grandfather started a college fund for me when I was born.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Delivered meals through Meals on Wheels and helped plan their biggest fundraiser of the year when I was in college.

If I could have any talent, it would be to play the acoustic guitar really well.

Fantasy travel destination is Barcelona, Spain and the French Riviera.

Guilty pleasure A Starbucks venti soy latte every morning.

I wish I’d known at 21 Life is all about taking chances.

At parties, I’m always the most social person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself happily married with three kids and a successful career.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove That publicists are always out partying and never “really” work. We actually work many long hours – and in an office!

Nickname Tisch and Krissy T. My sister has never once called me by my real name – only Krissy.

Favorite neighborhood Bucktown/Wicker Park.

Title of My Autobiography Thank Your Lucky Stars.

Ideal partner Confident, funny, ambitious and trustworthy.

The first thing I notice about someone The way they carry themselves.

I’d never spill on a first date When I was on a date last!

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it’s not realistic.

Fail-safe date plan A group date.

On first dates, I’m usually way too talkative and sometimes nerdy.

Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t have common courtesy.

The last thing I did to impress a date Attempting to break dance.

What makes me an ideal date I’m easy to talk to and open-minded.

Laura Schwartz

Laura Schwartz 36 Author of Eat, Drink and Succeed: The Networking Power of Social Events; Television Commentator, Speaker and Founder of White House Strategies

On the side The American Heart Association Board Member, PAVE Board Member, Step Up Women’s Network, The Guthy Jackson Foundation and 5K’s all around the city!

Hometown Plymouth, Wisconsin

Current neighborhood Gold Coast

Height: 5’3”



My family is the most important thing to me.

Friends would say I’m spontaneous.

Fun fact As a kid, I went through five years of speech therapy – and now I talk for a living! You’d never know I ever had a problem!

I love my job because everyday is like an adventure, whether I’m traveling to a great location and speaking for the book or not knowing what news will break in the morning that will send me reporting live from the White House five hours later.

Passion Friends and the great City of Chicago.

I love Chicago because it has the best of what the world offers – green space, a sense of community, incredible neighborhoods, fabulous restaurants, a fun social scene, a truly Great Lake and the most passionate and compassionate people in the world!

Secret talent Well, it wouldn’t be a secret anymore if I gave it up in print!

Life motto When life hands you lemons, just add vodka! In other words, Keep calm and carry on!

Hobbies Traveling to incredible locations around the globe that have a sense of adventure and on the cusp of being discovered. Photography and anything I can do with friends.

Ideal Saturday night A five-hour dinner with incredible friends catching up, looking ahead and laughing a ton!

On my day off, you’ll find me shopping Michigan Avenue.

Role model My sister.

Childhood ambition Vice President.

The happiest day of my life Every Christmas Eve, looking around the table to see everyone laughing while reciting lines to National Lampoons Christmas Vacation!

Career highlight Spending time with the Children’s Miracle Network children and families that would come to see the president each year during my eight years as the White House Director of Events for the Clinton Administration. I was fortunate to meet and work with heads of state, American icons, astronauts that just returned from the moon and celebrities, but to meet those children and their families facing the toughest time of their lives – I was most proud to orchestrate a moment for them.

The thing that would make my life complete Well, besides the obvious world peace, I’d say continued health for my family and friends!

If I won the lottery, I’d financially take care of my family and then set up an endowment for Fourth Lights, which serves the all to often forgotten children and homeless of Chicago.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me There is no once thing I can think of but for someone just to stop and say hello no matter how crazy their day, that’s kind and appreciated.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else I just like being there for someone when they don’t think anyone notices they’re in need, just to make a difference.

If I could have any talent, it would be to pick out paint colors before I turn my place into a giant color swatch!

Fantasy travel destination Greenland – in a really cozy jacket.

First job Midwest Press Secretary for the Clinton White House.

Guilty pleasure Chocolate cake batter.

I wish I’d known at 21 Things that seem like really big deals really aren’t and end up as bits and pieces that make up life.

At parties, I’m always the “fun facts” person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself still speaking and on TV, writing another book and just enjoying life, friends and family.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove That we just read what we are given. I study and know the ins and outs of every issue I discuss.

I can talk for hours about literally anything you want to talk about!

Nickname Schwartzy.

Favorite neighborhood Wherever I happen to be!

The title of my autobiography “Sankofa,” a word I learned from the people of Ghana that means “always return to your roots.”

Ideal partner Fun, compassionate and chooses a place for dinner!

The first thing I notice about someone is how engaging they are when it comes to being in a conversation...one sided conversations can be so boring!

I do believe in love at first sight because I think love is all about trusting your instincts and if they tell you this could be something – go with it!

Fail-safe date plan Befriending the waiter in case I want them to speed up the service so we can get to the check!

On first dates, I’m usually excited about the possibilities. I love dating!

Deal breaker Someone who is rude or condescending, that is such a turn off!

Meet the parents When I’m ready to meet theirs.

The last thing I did to impress a date Be on time!

Dating in Chicago is great because the guys are so down to earth and conversations usually start around what you do for fun…not always what you do for a living.

What makes me an ideal date I can have fun anywhere, from the back table at Le Colonial to the bleachers at Wrigley, skating in Millennium Park, martini’s at NoMI or a beer at Butch McGuires…as long as I know what to wear – I’m ready to go!

Lynne Bredfeldt

Lynne Bredfeldt 26 Founder, J. Lynne PR

On the side Advisory Board Member for The Aparecio Foundation, Volunteer for Fashion Group International Chicago

Hometown Chicago, Illinois Current neighborhood South Loop

Height On a good day, I feel 10’ tall.



My family is my rock and foundation.

Friends would say I’m an independent thinker, driven, energetic, and passionate about life and career.

Fun fact I’m adopted.

I love my job because I feel I was born to be in PR.

Passion People that matter most to me and my faith.

I love Chicago because people save their parking spots with lawn chairs!

Secret talent I can figure skate.

Life motto “We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.” (Eleanor Roosevelt)

Hobbies Traveling, running, indie music, shopping vintage.

Ideal Saturday night Hopping on a plane at the last minute to have dinner somewhere fabulous (yes, this has happened!).

On my day off, you’ll find me working.

Role model My mother – she is the most selfless woman I know.

Childhood ambition A television reporter.

The happiest day of my life Completing the Chicago Marathon.

Career highlight Winning Fashion Group International’s Rising Star PR Award.

The thing that would make my life complete A cab light at my condo building.

If I won the lottery, I’d travel the world. Do what I do now, but times 10.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Believe in me.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else You can never be kind enough.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be an amazing cook.

Fantasy travel destination A safari in Africa or Hotel Missoni in Edinburgh.

First job Ice skating instructor at All Seasons Ice Rink when I was 15.

Guilty pleasure Red wine and reading missed connections on Craigslist.

I wish I’d known at 21 I shouldn’t wear sequins on Sundays.

At parties, I’m always the shortest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself just as I am now, but 10 years wiser.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove Insincerity.

I can talk for hours about anything.

Favorite neighborhood Gold Coast. It’s like a great big family there. I love walking down the street and seeing everyone you know.

The title of my autobiography How to Be a Hepburn in a Hilton World: The Art of Living with Style, Class, and Grace, by Jordan Christy – it’s already a book!

Ideal partner Genuine.

The first thing I notice about someone Confidence and smile.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it is so much more than physical.

Fail-safe date plan I have work early the next morning.

On first dates, I’m usually the one eating a lot. I have no shame.

Deal breakers Someone who wasn’t kind, confident, independent and focused on what’s important in life

Meet the parents It’s never a bad time to take someone home to meet the parents.

The last thing I did to impress a date Bought a fabulous dress.

What makes me an ideal date I can go from a fashion show to a fishing boat.

Maricza Valentin

Maricza Valentin 35 Artistic Director/Dance Instructor, Latin Rhythms – Academy of Dance and Performance

On the side PAWS Chicago

Hometown Chicago, Illinois Current neighborhood Pilsen

Height 5’4”



My family is a large group of strong, loving and independent women.

Friends would say I’m passionate and humble.

I love my job because I am able to impact the lives of people with the simple gift of dance, but it’s so much more…confidence, community and family.

Passion Music, family, dogs and living life happily.

I love Chicago because Who doesn’t?! Food, music, summertime fests!

Life motto Living in the constant pursuit of happiness.

Hobbies Dogs, watching good live music every moment possible and crafting (dorky, I know).

Ideal Saturday night Watching jazz in a tiny place, so tiny that I can feel the music pounding in my chest.

On my day off, you’ll find me hanging out with my dogs or listening to live music.

Role model There are so many…but first on my list is my momma. She lives with her heart wide open and leading the way.

Childhood ambition A lawyer, a veterinarian, a pop star, a fly girl.

Career highlight I have the same one yearly…standing in a room filled with hundreds of people there to support something you have sacrificed for and seeing their sheer joy and passion. Words really can’t describe the feeling.

The thing that would make my life complete is having my own little people.

If I won the lottery, I’d buy my mother a house. Cliché, I know.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Offer me the opportunity to own my own business. It literally fell into my lap…wasn’t even looking for it.

If I could have any talent, it would be to play music as passionately as I think I’d be able to.

Fantasy travel destination Of the many…Egypt.

First job A clerk at a law firm…boring!

Guilty pleasure Chocolate cupcakes from Dinkel’s Bakery.

I wish I’d known at 21 There is plenty of time…so no need to rush.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove All male dancers are gay… so not the case.

I can talk for hours about music, dance and dogs.

Nickname Risk.

Ideal partner Kind, outgoing, independent.

One thing that attracts me to people Their confidence and sense of humor.

Fail-safe date plan A quick cup of hot chocolate.

On first dates, I’m usually open and curious.

Deal breakers Someone who smokes or doesn’t want little people!

Meet the parents When I get that feeling…you know.

The last thing I did to impress a date Shave my legs.

Mary Frances Bragiel

Mary Frances Bragiel 45 Journalist, WBBM-780 AM

On the side Misericordia Heart of Mercy Home, CARE USA

Hometown Arlington Height, Illinois

Current neighborhood Chicago, Illinois

Height 6’



My family is interesting in that I am one of five girls and we all have the first name Mary. Mary Katherine, Mary Frances, Mary Ellen, Mary Clare and Mary Colleen. My mom Mary Irene, my Aunt Mary Ann, we had a horse Mary Mary, and a rabbit Mary Doe. My dad is Fred, and loved having five daughters! My sister Mary Clare has continued the tradition with her four children: Mary Grace, Mary Julia, Mary Margaret and Jimmy. In case you’re wondering, very few people ever called the house while growing up asking “Is Mary home?”

Friends would say I’m funny, honest, opinionated (at times too opinionated), and loyal.

Fun fact I am not a fan of public speaking, despite my career in television and radio news.

I love my job because it’s my passion. I have wanted to be a reporter since I was a kid because I am interested in what goes on outside of my world.

Passion My connection to Misericordia and CARE USA.

I love Chicago because of the people. I have lived elsewhere, including on the East Coast and in the South, and the people of Chicago are truly warmer, kinder and much more fun to be around.

Life motto Find your passion, regardless of the money, and go for it! In the end you’ll be more fulfilled.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner out or staying in, watching a movie with a bottle of good red wine.

Role models My parents. Professionally, Chicago journalist Carol Marin.

Childhood ambition Reporter when I grew up.

The happiest day of my life The first time I did a story while interning at WGN radio in 1996. I assisted anchor Lyle Dean in the evening, and he would, at times, let me write and report a story. He was a great teacher!

Career highlight The day I started my career!

The thing that would make my life complete A family of my own.

If I won the lottery, I’d pay the medical bills of those who have no insurance. I’d also pay mortgages for those who are being foreclosed on because of a job loss.

Fantasy travel destination Anywhere overseas. I was fortunate enough to travel to London, Ireland and Paris growing up but it has been a number of years since I traveled I internationally.

First job Working as a checkout girl at Venture in Arlington Heights.

Guilty pleasure Television. I love it!

I wish I’d known at 21 People do not change.

At parties, I’m always the person in the room who wants to meet everyone.

In 10 years, I see myself hopefully with a family of my own, still working as a journalist

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry that I disprove That everyone is self-centered. Simply not true.

I can talk for hours about politics

Nickname Frannie.

Favorite Chicago neighborhoods Little Italy and Greek Town. I love the old world feeling I get whenever I visit, plus I love the food!

Ideal partner Truly kind, honest family-oriented guy who has a personality, but with a bit of an edge.

The first thing I notice about someone His manners.

I do not believe in love at first sight, but lust…absolutely!

On first dates, I’m usually a bit more reserved. I save the sarcasm for later.

Deal breaker Someone who is lacking in manners.

Dating in Chicago is great because for me it’s always six degrees of separation. And, dating in Chicago is tough because of the “six degrees of separation“ factor

What makes me an ideal date I can hold my own in any situation. Thanks to the values taught by my parents and after building a life in Washington, DC and other parts of the country I have a solid foundation.

Maureen Jenkins

Maureen Jenkins 41 Corporate communicator; freelance travel and food writer and blogger

On the side Chicago Sister Cities Milan (Italy) and Paris Committees, International Visitors Center of Chicago, French American Chamber of Commerce in Chicago, Alliance Française de Chicago, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., Grace Episcopal Church

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood South Loop

Height 5’1”



My family is the most supportive, incredible group of people in the world.

Friends would say I’m way too trusting of others. That’s ironic considering that as a journalist, I’ve been professionally trained to be skeptical!

Fun fact I’m a TOTAL Aerosmith fanatic and have met the band backstage twice.

Passion International travel and ethnic cuisine, especially when it’s found in family-owned neighborhood restaurants.

I love Chicago because I live just a 45-minute Blue Line El ride away from some out-of-town adventure.

Secret talent Being able to name obscure one-hit wonder artists and song titles from the ‘70s.

Life motto A quote from Virginia Woolf: “To let oneself be carried on passively is unthinkable.”

On my day off, you’ll find me sleeping ‘til noon (or later) and posting on UrbanTravelGirl.com, my personal blog that encourages African-American women “to live globally through international travel.”

If I won the lottery, I’d go back to college and study all the cool stuff I was too “focused” to take the first time around, such as art history and Greek philosophy.

I wish I’d known at 21 Relationships are just as important, if not more, than careers and work. Remember what Billy Dee Williams’ character told Diana Ross’s in the film Mahogany? “Success is nothing without someone to share it with.”

In 10 years, I see myself living abroad – ideally, in some fabulous city in Europe.

Nickname Reenie (used by my family, childhood friends, and pals from my undergraduate days at Northwestern).

Favorite neighborhood My own South Loop!

Ideal partner Someone I likely haven’t yet met – and who’s probably living on the other side of the world.

One thing that attracts me to people A foreign accent.

I’d never spill on a first date I’ve never had any interest in having kids, or parenting anyone else’s.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it’s really lust. Who are we kidding?

On first dates, I’m usually super-talkative and ask a ton of questions (sorry – it’s a professional hazard!).

Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t like his mother.

Meet the parents When he says he wants to go to church with me – and actually goes!

Megan J

Megan J 30 Owner, Adrenaline Fitness Boutique; Real Estate Broker

On the side Girls in the Game

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood West Loop

Height 5’8”



My family is supportive and loving; the foundation for the person that I’ve become.

Nickname MJ, and no, I can’t play like Mike, but I’m pretty good at the free throw game at Dave & Busters.

Friends would say I’m oddly clumsy, and often found laughing at myself; one of the most open-minded and non-judgmental people they know.

Fun fact I still have a pair of roller skates with my grammar school moniker, “MJ Love,” airbrushed on the side in neon pink. I plan to dust them off and jump back on the floor someday!

I love my job because as the owner of Adrenaline Fitness Boutique, I’m able to impact the lives of so many women. The unique “cardio parties” we offer allow us to help women get and stay fit through dance. I’ve been blessed to meet some of the most amazing women in Chicago who just exude positivity.

Secret talent acting. As a child, I had a small credited role in the feature film Flatliners with Julia Roberts and Kevin Bacon. Since then I’ve dabbled in modeling and acting, and would love to someday leave my mark on the Chicago theatre scene.

Life motto In business and personal life, always try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes before reacting.

If I could have any talent, being able to fly would come in handy. I used to dream about flying when I was little; I’d grab my friends’ hands and we’d fly off into the sky and land safely at school. Remember the movie, The Boy who could Fly? He was pretty awesome.

Ideal Saturday night A Small group of friends, games and Moscato followed by a hot bath and a good book.

On my day off, you’ll find me taking a quick getaway trip, but probably still working on my laptop.

Passion Empowering youth; encouraging peers and being inspired; traveling. I hope to get a few more stamps on my passport this year.

Guilty pleasure Weekend getaways; frozen yogurt with blueberries and strawberries; reflexology; Chai tea with soy milk.

I love Chicago because of the wonderful summers here! There’s just so much to do with the lakefront activities, summer festivals galore, fabulous restaurants, world-class cultural institutions and endless entertainment.

Ideal partner A gentleman, who’s fun, adventurous, ambitious, honest, creative, has a sense of humor and leads a healthy, active lifestyle.

The first thing I notice about someone A nice smile.

Deal breaker Someone who smokes.

Dating in Chicago is tough because as a small business owner there’s just not a lot of free time to get out and mingle, especially in the colder months; I tend to hibernate.

Monika Lotter

Monika Lotter 37 Director of Catering, Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago

On the side Associate Board – Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago; Young Executives Committee – Mid America Club; Member/Past President – Professional Partners Children’s Place Association; Board Member – Catering Executives Club of America; HSMAI; Chicago Hospitality Group

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood North Center

Height 5’8”



My family is the most important thing in my life. They are my best friends, my support system and my fan club. I am very fortunate to have them and love that I get to see them often since they all live close by.

Friends would say I’m one of the hardest working people they know and that I have a positive outlook on life.

Fun fact I love to go mountain biking. When I lived in Colorado, The Rockies were practically in my backyard. I took advantage as often as I could.

I love my job because I am naturally a “people person,” and this career offers me the chance to work closely with people in making their dreams a reality.

The great thing about my job is having had the incredible learning experience of being a part of a high-profile hotel opening, and seeing it through to the success it has become. Another great experience was being able to try out the exclusive spa treatments, especially the “Ultimate Kate Facial” at the Spa at Trump. It was my saving grace during some very challenging times our first year of being open. I highly recommend it to any gal needing a “red carpet” treatment.

Passion The non-profit organizations I volunteer for. It’s a truly rewarding feeling that comes from knowing you’ve helped deserving people get a break in life.

I love Chicago because it is a city with a big heart. I constantly hear about our city from people around our country and the rest of the world, and it makes me smile. We have busy skyscrapers and intimate neighborhoods, all within a few miles of each other. We have a breathtaking skyline, famous all over the world. We have so many cultures melding together, offering us vast diversity in art, music, theater and dining.

Secret talents I can still read sheet music from when I played the violin (age 9-17), I speak fluent German and love to cook.

Life motto Treat your friends with kindness. Kill your enemies with love. (Thanks, Mom!)

Hobbies Skiing, biking and hiking. I love the mountain lifestyle and appreciate being out in nature when I can.

My ideal Saturday night is trying out a new restaurant or going to an old favorite.

On my day off, you’ll find me most likely sleeping in, then waking up to make the most perfect cup of coffee. That day would also include cooking an amazing meal and, if I am lucky, time at the spa or shopping.

Role model My father. As an adult I have been able to learn so much from him and come to understand the intense work ethic he’s had all his life. This apple did not fall far from the tree. His biggest achievement, starting Christkindlmarket Chicago, is now in its 14th year and has become an annual tradition for many Chicagoans. I’m so proud of him.

Childhood ambition A nurse or doctor. I actually volunteered as a candy striper during my high school years to see if it was right for me. It wasn’t, but I give those healthcare workers a lot of credit.

The happiest day of my life May still be coming! Honestly, I consider myself very lucky to have the family and friends that are in my life. There have been many happy days…and I look forward to more to come in the near future.

Career highlight Being a part of the opening team of Trump Chicago. What a great compliment to be selected to experience Trump’s introduction to the Midwest. It was thrilling to help make major decisions in defining our ambience and experience, also to be a part of evolving Chicago’s skyline with the completion of the tower.

The thing that would make my life complete Having my own family. It’s the next chapter in my life.

If I won the lottery, I’d send my parents on that trip to Alaska they’ve been talking about forever.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My friend Barb’s parents gave me their airline miles so I could join Barb on an amazing trip to Australia.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Being that additional support system for friends going through difficult times.

If I could have any talent, it would be to be able to paint. It seems like a great creative outlet and stress reliever, with that sense of completion from each piece.

Fantasy travel destination An island-hopping trip somewhere exotic. Spending a day or two on each island, taking a little break from reality.

First job Working for each of my parents in their own businesses. For my father’s business, I helped out in the office doing mailings. In the summer my brother and I did inventory. My mother is an entrepreneur and started her own business, a tanning boutique. I helped out at the front desk and organized the boutique side of the business.

Guilty pleasure Ice cream. You can’t keep a pint in my freezer once I know it’s there.

I wish I’d known at 21 That my 30s would be much more fun than my 20s.

At parties, I’m always the friendliest person in the room, mixing and mingling as much as I can.

In 10 years, I see myself as a successful entrepreneur.

The stereotype about people in my industry I disprove Having a superiority complex. I have respect for everyone I work for and with, and for that matter, any of my competitors in the industry. I account for my own actions and take pride in achieving personal goals. I work hard to give everyone the respect that they deserve, no matter what level they are at in their careers. As for working with others in the industry, I’m very proud of the close-knit group of colleagues I’ve developed.

I can talk for hours about my niece (and goddaughter), Samantha. She is three and such a joy in my life. We bonded the moment she came into this world, and are best friends. She is my little shadow whenever we’re together, and her energy is invigorating. Nothing can make me smile more these days.

Nickname “Moni.” Just a shortening of my full name, but it works.

Favorite neighborhood Always changing. I’ve spent a great part of my life in the Lincoln Square area due to my German heritage, so that will always be a favorite. I do love the diversity of offerings in Bucktown, Wicker Park and Andersonville as well.

Title of my autobiography It Took Awhile, But She Found Her Life.

Ideal partner Someone who is confident in himself. Enough to take a step back and be a gentleman. I am looking for someone to share life with, not compete with. Teach me something new and I’ll do the same, or, we can learn together.

One thing that attracts me to people Their ability to make me smile. If you can make me laugh, that’s even better.

I’d never spill on a first date Any past relationships.

I do believe in love at first sight because I’ve heard of it happening before. The hard part is opening your eyes in the first place.

Fail-safe date plan Something interactive like bowling.

On first dates, I’m usually quiet. I spend so much of my life needing to be outgoing whether with clients, co-workers or networking, that when in a purely social situation, I tend to step back a little and let the other person take the lead.

Deal breaker Someone who felt like they had to compete to get my attention, or anyone else’s for that matter.

Meet the parents When I feel comfortable enough knowing that I can picture this person in my life.

The last thing I did to impress a date Share the kitchen with him, making a great batch of chili before a Bears game.

Dating in Chicago is tough because meeting someone is difficult. Working long hours can be a bit challenging in this regard.

What makes me an ideal date I will let YOU make the plans. I will step back and look forward to whatever ideas you dream up.

Orhan Sancaktar

Orhan Sancaktar 29 Resident Physician in Internal Medicine and Pediatrics

On the side I volunteer for a downtown free clinic.

Hometown Potsdam, New York

Current neighborhood Printer's Row

Height 6'1”



My family is half Turkish.

Friends would say I’m honest and caring.

Fun fact I lived in Beijing.

The great thing about my job is I get to see the difference I make in people's lives every day.

Passion Triathlons.

Secret talent I can make a pretty great banana bread.

Life motto Don't lose perspective.

Hobbies Triathlon training and playing the piano.

Ideal Saturday night Pretty much anything involving my good friends.

On my day off, you’ll find me getting in a long workout and catching up on some sleep.

Role model A brilliant cardiologist I work with who is remarkably modest, kind and patient.

Childhood ambition I thought I could have all the jobs at the same time.

Career highlight Graduating from medical school.

The thing that would make my life complete A family and a happy home.

If I won the lottery, I’d work for Doctors Without Borders. And buy a fancy car.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Take care of me when I was sick.

If I could have any talent, it would be to play the piano well.

Fantasy travel destination The forests of Tibet.

First job A paperboy.

Guilty pleasure Cookies. Pretty much every kind.

I wish I’d known at 21 The friends I made in college would continue be so important to me.

At parties, I’m always trying to introduce people to one another.

In 10 years, I see myself with a successful cardiology practice and at least one completed Ironman.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove That we're impersonal. I've met some of the most compassionate people in my job.

I can talk for hours about how to train for endurance sports.

Favorite neighborhood Wicker Park/Bucktown because it has so much character.

Ideal partner Loving and secure with herself.

The first thing I notice about someone How they smile.

I’d never spill on a first date I'm a closet computer geek.

I do believe in love at first sight because I have felt it, but it takes so much more to make a relationship work.

Fail-safe date plan The art museum.

On first dates, I’m usually pretty relaxed and casual.

I’d never date someone whom I couldn't trust.

Meet the parents when I wake up every morning thinking about her.

The last thing I did to impress a date Cook her a nice dinner.

Dating in Chicago is great because the people here have such diverse life experiences. And dating in Chicago is tough because people sometimes treat dating like a job and forget it's about getting to know another person and it should be fun.

What makes me an ideal date is I'm driven in my life goals but I know that the people I care about are the most important part of my life.

Patrick Brown

Patrick Brown 28 General Manager, The Underground

On the side Would like to get involved with the animal cruelty shelter but haven’t had time…on my 2010 list.

Hometown Marion, Iowa

Current neighborhood Streeterville

Height 6’4”



My family is awesome.

Friends would say I’m an incredible speller.

Fun fact I collect stamps.

I love my job because I can actually party AT work!

Passion Enlightening people that global warming is a complete hoax.

I love Chicago because the most beautiful woman in the world live here and the summers are amazing.

Secret talent I can solve a Rubix Cube.

Life motto Never look back, something might be gaining on you.

Hobby Trying to find a hobby.

Ideal Saturday night Having my friends over to cook for and enjoying numerous bottles of wine.

On my day off, you’ll find me catching up on things I didn’t have time for while at work.

Role model My father and Tom Brady.

Childhood ambition Astronaut.

The happiest day of my life The first day of spring break in college…all four years.

Career highlight Not ever having to do sales.

The thing that would make my life complete Finding my perfect little bunny to curl up with.

If I won the lottery, I wouldn’t tell anyone…shhhh!

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me was call 911, wait…The kindest thing I ever did for someone else was call 911.

If I could have any talent, it would be x-ray vision or be able to skateboard awesome.

First job was mowing lawns.

Guilty pleasure Wife Swap on Lifetime.

I wish I’d known at 21 Your body doesn’t always bounce back from partying like it does at that point.

At parties, I’m always the tallest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself being 38.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove That we all have awesome schedules.

I can talk for hours about work.

Nickname P.B.

Favorite neighborhood Streeterville, where I live.

Title of my autobiography P.B. – More Than Just Peanut Butter.

One thing that attracts me to people Their eyes and smile.

I’d never spill on a first date Pretty much everything, because I’m kind of shy.

I do believe in love at first sight because anything can happen!

Fail-safe date plan Underground Wonder Bar.

On first dates, I’m usually late.

Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t know where IOWA is.

Meet the parents When they say yes.

The last thing I did to impress a date Pay for a cab.

Dating in Chicago is great because there’s 4 million people.

What makes me an ideal date is a lot of Jameson.

Patrick O'Herlihy

Patrick O’Herlihy 37 Assistant Vice President, Corporate Communications, Harris Bank

On the side Foster Parents Plan International

Hometown Born in Dublin Ireland, raised in the prairies of western Canada and the suburbs of Toronto Current neighborhood Lakeview

Height 6’2



Family ties My parents live near Toronto. My brother is in Toronto and my sister is in England. Almost my entire extended family is in Ireland, with a few exceptions in England and Spain.

Friends would say I don’t take myself too seriously.

Fun fact I work in a bank and have an MA in Irish history.

The great thing about my job The people I work with – both colleagues and the senior leadership team – act with integrity.

Passion Travel…I try to go on 2-3 roadtrips per year in Canada and the U.S., and fly to at least one international destination.

I love Chicago for many reasons. It’s a beautiful city with very friendly people. It has a happening nightlife, a great cultural scene and thankfully, it’s finally a hockey town once again.

Life motto It’s pretty simple: treat others the way you would like to be treated.

Hobbies Playing soccer, going for a run, catching up on current events, going to a Hawks game, going out for sushi. (Is sushi a hobby?)

On my day off, you’ll find me exploring the city. I’ve only been here for six months so far, so there is still plenty to discover.

Hero If I had a hero I suppose it would be Michael Collins. Leading the fight for independence and founding the Irish Free State by the age of 32 is no small feat.

First job Calling bingo. Hell of a good first job.

If I won the lottery, I’d go back to calling bingo.

Guilty pleasure Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups.

If I could have any talent, it would be being able to sing. I’m dreadful at singing. I was once booed off of a karaoke stage.

I wish I’d known at 21 That I can’t sing.

Fail-safe date plan After a couple of drinks, breaking out the Irish accent.

Meet the parents When they’ve figured out how to pronounce O’Herlihy.

Samantha Lurie

Samantha Lurie 30 ENAZ boutique owner/buyer/merchandiser

On the side ENAZ partnered with The Lynne Sage Breast Cancer Research Foundation during Breast Cancer Awareness Month 2009

Hometown Highland Park, Illinois

Current neighborhood Old Town

Height 5’5”





My family is loving, crazy fun…never a dull moment (that’s for sure)!

Friends would say I’m spontaneous, life of the party and full of heart.

Fun fact I was born on my sister’s birthday.

I love my job because I get to be creative and help people look and feel their best!

Passion Music, travel and thrift shopping.

I love Chicago because it’s centrally located between NY and LA (my two other favorite cities).

Life motto Work like you don’t need the money, love like you’ve never been hurt and dance like no one’s watching.

Hobbies Yoga, tv, travel, concerts and fashion.

Ideal Saturday night Dinner with friends and going to see a band.

On my day off, you’ll find me convincing a friend to take the day off with me!

Role model My dad.

Childhood ambition A gas station attendant, so I could wash the windows…no joke!

The happiest day of my life Getting my braces off!

Career highlight Expanding ENAZ (our family boutique).

The thing that would make my life complete Finding my soul mate.

If I won the lottery Besides sharing some of it with my family, I’d charter a private jet to Mykonos for me and my friends, rent a yacht and party like it’s 1999.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Listen to me when I needed someone to lend a ear.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Make them laugh.

If I could have any talent, it would be to sing.

Fantasy travel destination Australia.

First job Helping my mom sell her leather goods at art fairs.

Guilty pleasure Reality TV.

I wish I’d known at 21 What I know now.

At parties, I’m always the liveliest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself married with a family.

The stereotype about people in my industry I disprove is fashion is shallow.

I can talk for hours about almost anything.

Nickname Sambojambolickydickydambo.

Favorite neighborhood Old Town.

Title of my autobiography Enough About Me, Now You Talk About Me.

Ideal partner Someone who believes in me.

The first thing I notice about someone Their smile.

I’d never spill on a first date I never kiss ‘n tell!

I do believe in love at first sight because anything’s possible!

Fail-safe date plan Shooting pool.

On first dates, I’m usually the most talkative.

Deal breaker Someone who is disrespectful to me or my family (or his family).

Meet the parents When they get past my siblings.

The last thing I did to impress a date Run the pool table.

Dating in Chicago is great because everyone knows everyone.
Dating in Chicago is tough because everyone knows everyone!

What makes me an ideal date I’m confident, affectionate, hard working, passionate, open-minded, and independent. I have a sense of humor and know the importance of family. I surround myself with positive people who encourage me to be a better person and would like to do the same in return.

Scott Cervone

Scott Cervone 31 Director of Business Development for Advertising and Consumer Products, TransPerfect Inc.

On the side Coaching 5^th & 6^th grade basketball

Hometown Crystal Lake, Illinois Current neighborhood Lincoln Park

Height 6’2”



My family is insane, incredible and endlessly entertaining.

Friends would say I’m fun but dangerous to be around (really, I asked one so I could answer this question honestly).

Fun fact Last year I went to the doctor because I was having headaches. I just wanted some Ibuprofen. Turned out I had a brain tumor. That wasn’t fun, but my father and me snuck out of the hospital to watch the Bear’s game.

I love my job because besides motivating me to succeed professionally, my senior management team has taken a personal interest in helping me grow to be a better person.

Besides work, I’m truly passionate about I probably would have worded this question, “Besides the Bears, I’m truly passionate about: hard work and my career!”

I love Chicago because How can you not love this city? The history, the architecture, the food!? There is always something to do or see.

Secret talent Cooking.

Life motto It’s all about the story or no regrets.

Hobbies I’m pretty busy at work, but when I do have time, I like to play softball and volleyball.

Ideal Saturday night Drinks with friends.

Role model Not to be cliché, but my dad. He’s accomplished amazing things in his career.

Childhood ambition A racecar driver.

If I won the lottery, I’d start an organization to help youth athletic development for less fortunate communities. However, I would also hire a marching band to follow my sister everywhere she went for at least a week, just to see her beg for mercy!

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My best friend Brian owns Georgio’s Pizza in Crystal Lake. It has the best pizza in the Chicago area! I helped him out when opening his first restaurant. So he brought me a Jeep full of frozen pizzas…He also gave me the Jeep!

The kindest thing I ever did for someone Driving five hours, to Milwaukee, in a blizzard to pick a previous girlfriend up because she didn’t want to be alone. Turns out, I should have left her.

Fantasy travel destination Bora Bora!

First job A host at Applebee’s.

Guilty pleasure My growing unknown memory for the lyrics to country songs?

I wish I’d known at 21 There are consequences to everything, good or bad.

At parties, I’m always the person instigating things.

In 10 years, I see myself happy.

I can talk for hours about the Bears and my friends’ embarrassing activities.

Nickname SC and Cameron.

Favorite neighborhood River North.

Title of my autobiography Scott Cervone: Defying Death.

Ideal partner Trusting, witty and fun.

The first thing I notice about someone Their sense of humor and eyes.

I’d never spill on a first date I love Jameson shots!

I don’t believe in love at first sight because you don’t truly know someone until you spend time with them, and how can you “love” someone you don’t know?

Fail-safe date plan Sunda.

On first dates, I’m usually optimistic.

Deal breaker Someone who couldn’t kiss.

Meet the parents Well, at this point, my parents would probably go for anything, so standards have diminished since the ‘90s.

The last thing I did to impress a date By coincidence we sat right next to Jay Cutler. I had nothing to do with it, but she was impressed, I think?

What makes me an ideal date I’m just looking for good banter and to have fun.

Scott R. Clewis

Scott R. Clewis 44 Trial Attorney

On the side Mercy Home for Girls & Boys

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood Gold Coast/River North

Height 5’9”



My family is extremely important to me.

Friends would say I am loyal.

Fun fact I’ve always quietly dreamed of becoming an actor or television personality.

I love my job because I know that what I do makes a difference in the lives of people who have been badly wronged. Every time I step into a courtroom, I feel like I’m playing in the Super Bowl. What a great feeling!

Passion Finding a woman to share beautiful dreams and make them come true.

I love Chicago because it has always been my home and it never stops feeling like home.

Life motto Moderation in moderation. MODERATION IN MODERATION.

Hobby Going to the gym and working out.

Ideal Saturday night Simple: red wine, good food and the right company.

On my day off, you’ll find me working, and then playing.

Heroes My parents, who are watching me from above and smiling.

Childhood ambition A television anchorman or talk show host. I’m still available for hire if any of the networks are interested.

The happiest day of my life Seeing my mother see me become a lawyer.

Career highlight Landing my first job at a well-known law firm. I was so grateful for the opportunity.

The thing that would make my life complete A wife and children.

If I won the lottery, I’d buy a house for both of my sisters. By the way, is this a contract?

If I could have any talent, it would be to play the piano and sing. Of course, playing professional basketball wouldn’t be bad either.

Fantasy travel destination The most romantic place in the world with the woman of my dreams.

First job Delivering the neighborhood newspaper.

Guilty pleasure Godiva chocolate cheesecake covered with chocolate fudge.

I wish I’d known at 21 That my parents weren’t really old at the age of 52.

At parties, I’m always the most talkative person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself coaching first base for my kid’s pee wee baseball team.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove That lawyers are not always honest.

I can talk for hours about My family, food, sports and wine.

Favorite neighborhood The neighborhood I am in at any particular time.

Ideal partner A romantic, affectionate, big-hearted and sweet.

One thing that attracts me to people Their warmth.

I don’t believe in love at first sight because true love is deeper than the eyes can perceive.

My fail-safe date plan Dinner and dancing.

On first dates, I’m usually a little more reserved.

Deal breaker Someone who smokes.

What makes me an ideal date I enjoy meeting people and I am at a mature point in my life where I am serious about settling down.

Sol Solis

Sol Solis 32 Owner/Instructor, Latin Rhythms Academy of Dance & Performance

On the side Step Up Women’s Network; 25th Ward Aldermanic Office; Book Lush Book Club; Chicago Sports Football & Softball Leagues

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current Neighborhood Pilsen

Height 5’3”



My family is loud, tight and an important part of my life.

Friends would say I’m genuine.

Fun fact I’ve never drank a cup of coffee or beer...go figure. And, during a college summer internship at the White House, I had to be escorted off the East Lawn by two secret service agents.

I love my job because it’s meaningful. People come to Latin Rhythms (time and time again,) because they feel they belong to a community. A community full of good music, dance, art, food and friends. Essentially, it’s a healthy space to be in…mind, body and soul.

Passion Living a deliberate life.

I love Chicago because it has everything I appreciate…fantastic food, culture, summers and fabulous childhood memories.

Life motto What I have discreetly tattooed on the inside of my left wrist: “Be Love.”

Hobbies Boxing, triathlons, getting pedicures, writing and Texas Hold ‘Em.

Ideal Saturday night Not spent at the clubs, but rather more intimately enjoying good music and company.

On my day off, you’ll find me getting a chair massage at Whole Foods.

Childhood ambition An airline pilot, until I discovered I was too short for the aviation height requirement. Womp, womp, womp.

Career highlight Finally mustering up the cojones (look it up) to leave my day job to pursue my current business venture full-time. Hindsight being 20/20, this “leap” was my best decision ever.

The thing that would make my life complete Giving back more. My biggest sense of purpose comes when I contribute (time, money or lessons) to those less fortunate.

If I won the lottery, I’d buy my mom, sisters and closest friends the gift of travel.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Donate my eggs to a couple unable to conceive naturally. Yep, Invetro Fertilization when I was younger.

If I could have any talent, it would be To play an instrument! (Especially the way I so skillfully do in my imagination.)

First job A lifeguard at North Avenue Beach. Hem, hem...If I may brag for a moment, I qualified for Chicago’s National Lifeguard Team.

Guilty pleasure Putting lemon and salt on all my fruit. (It’s a Mexican thing.)

I wish I’d known at 21 Maxing out five different credit cards with my minimum wage college income would come back to haunt me.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove Not all male dancers are gay.

I can talk for hours about Politics and my nieces.

Nickname Mickey. Don’t ask.

Favorite neighborhood A toss between Pilsen, the West Loop and anywhere on the lakefront.

Title of my autobiography The Audacity of Gratitude.

Ideal partner Someone who shares my zest for life. And if he comes with that handy man chip, I'll be the luckiest girl alive.

One thing that attracts me to people Their sense of humor and passion.

I’d never spill on a first date That I see dead people. Ha! Just kidding.

Fail-safe date plan It’s a secret…hello!

On first dates, I’m usually curious.

Deal breaker Someone who was homophobic, a chain smoker, or Republican – I’m kidding, but not really.

Meet the parents When the classic “I love you’s” are exchanged.

The last thing I did to impress a date Shave my legs.

What makes me an ideal date I’m open, fun and chew with my mouth closed.

Stephanie S. Green

Stephanie S. Green 45 Commercial Real Estate Attorney; Founder, Soleil’s To-Dos, www.so-LAZE.com

On the side The Renaissance Collaborative

Hometown Long Beach, California; Birmingham, Alabama

Current neighborhood Washington Park

Height 5’7½”



Friends would say I’m sleep-deprived.

Fun fact I can – jelly, chow-chow, pickles, etc.

I love my job because at the end of the day, my work contributes to the development of communities and provision of affordable housing.

Passion My Web site, Soleil’s To-Dos (www.so-LAZE.com), a calendar of culturally diverse events.

I love Chicago because there’s always something To-Do!

Secret talent A backbend per day!

Life motto A closed mouth doesn’t get fed.

Ideal Saturday night Spent trying something new!

On my day off, you’ll find me exploring the City of Chicago.

Childhood ambition Actress and/or singer.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me Driving at least an hour to rescue my dog at 2am from a frantic dogsitter while I was out of town!

First job At age 14 as a recreation aide at Carmelitos Park in Long Beach, California.

Guilty pleasure Eating soft, slushy ice.

I wish I’d known at 21 That 45 would come so quickly!

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove In my professional industry, that lawyers are manipulative, combative and/or dishonest. In my social-professional industry, that we’re frivolous and lack substance.

I can talk for hours about my Web site, Chicago cultural events, creative endeavors and social justice.

Nickname Sunshine, Sunny and Soleil.

Ideal partner Adventurous (food, travel and events), empathetic, creative, intelligent and intellectually curious. (The list goes on, but is pretty standard.)

One thing that attracts me to people Solid hands with very short, clean nails.

I’d never spill on a first date That I’m an attorney – people are too quick to judge!

I do believe in love at first sight because anything is possible.

Fail-safe date plan Non-existent – I can endure one date (even if I blog about it later!) and most people deserve at least three dates.

On first dates, I’m usually on time.

Deal breaker Someone who is complacent.

Meet the parents When I am sure that our feelings are mutual and comfortable enough with him to be sure that there are no hidden issues.

The last thing I did to impress a date It wasn’t designed to impress him, but my baking skills scored me some points!

Dating in Chicago is great because there are so many great restaurants, art galleries, theater companies and things you can do for free!

What makes me an ideal date I’m easy going. I’m up for anything from bid-whist in a basement to a black-tie ball, from feeding my body and soul at Soul Vegetarian to a gourmet meal at NoMi!

Zo Zozak

Zo Zozak 25 Mancow Radio Experience and Mancow and Cassidy, WLS-890 AM Chicago

On the side Raising Malawi, Friends of Toms, Support Bravo Battery Organization

Hometown Chicago, Illinois

Current neighborhood North Center

Height: 6’3”



My family is loving and very supportive.

Friends would say I’m the life of the party

Fun fact I studied abroad in Southeast Africa.

I love my job because I’m surrounded by hard-working and fun people

Passion Comedy, music, making films and women.

I love Chicago because of the great food, comedy theaters and cultural diversity.

Secret talent I can speak Croatian.

Life motto Keep it chillin.

Hobbies Playing disc golf with friends, reading, writing comedy sketches.

Ideal Saturday night A nice meal and drinks with friends.

On my day off, you’ll find me taking classes and performing at Second City, IO and Annoyance Theaters.

Role models My hardworking dad.

Childhood ambition A Chicago Bears tight end.

The happiest day of my life Everyday of my life. Live everyday like it’s your last.

Career highlight It hasn’t happened yet.

The thing that would make my life complete Owing a helicopter.

If I won the lottery, I’d invest some, give some to charity and travel.

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me My parents for conceiving me.

The kindest thing I ever did for someone else Make them laugh when in a bad mood.

If I could have any talent, it would be the ability to fly.

Fantasy travel destination South Africa for the World Cup.

First job Working for my dad’s real estate and remodeling company.

Guilty pleasure Pizza and fries.

I wish I’d known at 21 Drinking too much whiskey on an empty stomach is not a good idea.

At parties, I’m always the happiest person in the room.

In 10 years, I see myself acting and writing in comedy films and TV.

The biggest stereotype about people in my industry I disprove That we’re all crazy.

I can talk for hours about the places I have traveled.

Nickname No nicknames have stuck so far.

Favorite neighborhood Lincoln Square, because it’s the first neighborhood I lived in on my own.

Title of my autobiography Playin the Game By Zo.

Ideal partner Witty and doesn’t wear makeup.

The first thing I notice about someone Personality and their smile.

I’d never spill on a first date You will have to go on a date to find out!

I don’t believe in love at first sight because it hasn’t happened to me yet.

Fail-safe date plan Attempting to cook dinner.

On first dates, I plan something very informal and active to see how my date reacts to changed plans at the last second.

Deal breaker Someone who only talk about themselves.

Meet the parents I’m not ready for that at this time in my life.

The last thing I did to impress a date Nothing. I act like myself and it is what it is.

Dating in Chicago is tough because I’m very busy and don’t have a lot of time.

What makes me an ideal date I’m fun and easy to talk to.