Chicago's Top 50 Singles 2011
This year marks the 22nd year Today's Chicago Woman has showcased the most eligible singles in Chicago. After an arduous selection process, we narrowed the field down to the top 25 bachelors and 25 bachelorettes in Chicago. This year's singles range from entrepreneurs to media mavens to fitness gurus to famous foodies to financial wizards and everything in-between. Then, we gathered these 50 fun, philanthropic, energetic and ambitious singles at Fleming's Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar in River North for a fabulous cocktail party and photo shoot. (To see candid shots of our singles at the party, click here.)
Here, in no particular order, TCW presents our Top 50 Chicago Singles of 2011.
Don't forget: these 50 singles will be at our Top Singles Party on Friday, March 11, being held at Enclave from 7-10pm. For more information or to purchase tickets to our must-attend soiree and fundraiser for the Today's Chicago Woman Foundation, click here.
- Alain Balandra Uy
- Ammad Omar
- Anderson Bell
- Andrea Metcalf
- Andres Muñoz Honiball
- Artuo Gomez
- Brian A. Thompson
- Caroline Jung
- Carrie Risatti
- Chloé Ifergan
- Chris Macchia
- Chrishon Yvette Lampley
- Christine Kurban
- Clark Lichty
- Cynthia Mufarreh
- Daphne E. Ortiz
- David Grass
- David Pavlik
- Eddie Lou
- Elizabeth Hamel
- Elysabeth Alfano
- Ernest Wilkins
- Felicia N. Rauls
- Jamie Baisley
- Jeannette Cherie Pawula
- Jeffery Beckham Jr.
Alain Balandra Uy
28
Manager of The Lobby Restaurant in The Peninsula Chicago
On the side Guest speaker at The Illinois Institute of Art-Chicago Culinary School, member of The Guild of Master Sommeliers and member of The International Sommeliers Guild
Hometown Tacloban City and Leyte, Philippines
Current neighborhood Financial District
My family is everything to me.
Friends say I’m funny, loyal, competitive and driven.
Fun fact I once competed in a bodybuilding competition
Job perk Being a part of creating a memorable experience.
Chicago pride I love Chicago because it’s the quintessential big city. It has a great skyline, a beach during the summer, the Bears, a great dining/bar scene and diverse neighborhoods.
Secret talent Detailing cars.
Life motto Success is nothing if you can’t share it.
Hobbies Playing football, beach volleyball, eating, smoking an occasional cigar and going to the gym.
Perfect Saturday night Avoiding the crowds, going somewhere low key or staying in and catching up on movies.
Day off At the gym, then Chinatown for tea and dim sum, relaxing at my place listening to music, having dinner somewhere (I’m obsessed with The Purple Pig) and maybe ending the night somewhere with live music
Role model Manny Pacquiao.
Happiest day of my life was being able to give back to my family, especially my parents.
Career high Becoming a manager at 22, three years earlier than my goal.
Life complete I want to have my own family, one day.
If won the lottery I wouldn’t know what to do with myself! I’d probably go to Portillo’s and have an Italian beef with sweet and hot peppers, cheese fries and iced tea while figuring out how I’d spend my riches.
Superpower wish To fly. Just imagine where you could go!
First job I was a bagger at Jewel. Be nice to those baggers.
Guilty pleasure Popeye’s spicy chicken. Finger licking good!
In 10 years I see myself settled down. Probably married with a couple kids or 10 and maybe invested in a small chef-driven restaurant.
Can talk forever about The Philippines and how my experiences there makes me appreciate my life here in the States.
Nickname Not appropriate to say.
Fave neighborhood West Loop/Fulton Market area. Nice neighborhood with lots to do, close to downtown but not as congested.
My autobiography “Fully Committed, Reservations Highly Recommended.”
Ideal partner A woman who knows how to take care of me and appreciates being taken care of.
First thing I notice Her body language and appearance. Confidence is sexy and I appreciate a woman who dresses well.
Most memorable date Dinner at this intimate Italian restaurant and a walk in the park, which made for a memorable first kiss.
On first dates I’m usually inquisitive. I like to get to know my date and what she is all about.
Deal breakers Someone who smokes regularly, but an occasional cigar is sexy. I’d never date someone who has no aspirations or passion for anything.
Impressed a date By doing nothing. I’m not a believer in trying to impress a date.
Dating in Chicago Is great because of the diversity, but it can also be tough because just like any city, it’s not conducive for my industry.
Date me because I’m versatile. I would have just as much fun at a ballgame as I would at a picnic with a bottle of wine (or three).Dates shouldn’t be complicated; it’s just the medium for the best part, which is the company.
And I’m not a planner; I prefer to go with the flow.
Ammad Omar
27
News desk editor at WBEZ-FM
Hometown Chicago via England, California and Michigan
Current neighborhood River North
My family is Hilarious. My mom bought me an iPhone just so she could text message me. I didn’t tell her that these days, nearly every phone has texting capabilities.
Job perk I’m a news dork, and I get paid to geek out about what I would be doing anyway.
Passion University of Michigan football. I know it’s just kids playing a game, but if you go to school there, something happens that makes you care way, way too much. I need help in this regard.
Chicago pride There’s no better place in the world to cover politics. Not even DC.
Secret talent I’d like to think I’m a decent poker player. And I think I’d win championships as an NFL GM. Owners: Take note.
Life motto It’ll probably be fine.
Hobbies Playing golf and hanging out with friends.
Day off You’ll find me checking work email in-between naps.
Role models My parents. They taught me that nothing is handed to you in this world without hard work.
If won the lottery I’d buy myself an island or an NFL team.
First job I was a golf caddy in the fifth grade. The bag was bigger than me. Brutal.
Nickname AO. Very creative.
Ideal partner Smart and funny. And let’s be honest, easy on the eyes.
Most memorable date Was a Pistons game in Milwaukee on Valentine’s Day. My date knew the way to my heart (and the Pistons were still good).
Dating in Chicago Is great because there are a lot of smart, well-educated women. It can also be tough because everyone works 60-hour weeks, and there’s not much time or energy for dating.
Date me because I got the Johnson Baby Powder and Cool Water cologne (I stole that from Snoop Dogg). And because I can quote rappers.
Anderson Bell
33
Founder & CEO of FanFueled
On the side MRJBF at Children’s Memorial Hospital
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Streeterville
My family is Supportive, inspiring and tall.
Friends say I’m loyal and fun
Job perk By starting FanFueled, I’ve created a way for people to share concerts and events with their friends and be rewarded for it.
Passions My nieces and nephews.
Chicago pride The people and the music are great.
Perfect Saturday night Includes food, friends and live music.
Day off You’ll find me at the office.
Happiest day of my life Yet to come.
Career high Launching FanFueled.
If won the lottery I’d never tell.
First job Snow shoveling.
Guilty pleasure Frozen Snickers.
Wish I’d known at 21 That time would move so fast.
Ideal partner Is smart, kind, funny and insightful.
First thing I notice Someone’s energy.
Deal breaker Close-mindedness.
Meet the parents When I am proud of that person.
Andrea Metcalf
45
Health and Fitness Expert and Journalist for Andrea Metcalf, Inc., NBC-5, Meredith and Sears
On the side American Heart Association, Princess in You
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Old Town
My family is Most important to me.
Friends say I’m outgoing and focused.
Fun fact I’m good at chess and pretty good at skeet shooting.
Job perk My job isn’t work. I’m grateful I can do something I love and help others make important changes in their lives.
Passion My family.
Chicago pride It’s the midpoint between everywhere in the world. The Midwest has the warmest, most down-to-earth people.
Secret talent I can still do flips and twists off the diving board and on the ground.
Life motto Never be afraid to dream big.
Hobbies Twitter, skiing, scuba and golf.
Perfect Saturday night A Saturday night in Chicago.
Day off What’s a day off?
Role model Madonna - love her marketing, business sense and even music.
Happiest day of my life Every morning the sun shines. My philosophy is, ‘find the sun even when it’s raining.’
Career high Launch of my first book, “Naked Fitness.”
Life complete Knowing my children are confident in themselves, meeting someone to compliment my strengths and knowing that I made a difference.
If won the lottery I’d still be working, just getting more done.
Superpower wish To heal people while being invisible.
First job Washing dishes in a pizza place. I had a rash every Saturday night on my arms from the grease! I worked in four more pizza places after that!
Guilty pleasure Chocolate…anything chocolate.
In 10 years, I see myself in the same shape, but with a little more character – wrinkles are earned with laughter.
Can talk forever about Fitness.
Nickname Anj.
Fave neighborhood Old Town.
My autobiography “Second Chances.”
Ideal partner Passionate and successful.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date It was about a year ago: dine, dancing, singing, laughing and then sleeping in.
On first dates I’m usually a good listener.
Deal breakers If he smokes and isn’t interested in quitting.
Meet the parents Well, I haven’t met him yet, and I’m too old to take him home to my parents.
Deal breakers A negative attitude.
Impressed a date by Not doing anything differently.
Dating in Chicago There are so many interesting people, but I’m still looking for the right one.
Date me because I can have fun in a paper bag!
And I get more done in a day on the road than in my office.
Andres Muñoz Honiball
27
Manager at NoML in the Park Hyatt Chicago
On the side Common Threads
Hometown Costa Rica
Current neighborhood Lincoln Park
My family Is the foundation of who I am today.
Friends say I’m outspoken, a foodie and a wine geek.
Fun fact I brew my own beer, and it’s quite good!
Job perk I get to relate to and meet so many people. I work with an incredibly talented and diverse team who are all passionate about food, wine and the importance of customer service.
Chicago pride It’s a big city with small neighborhoods, the best summers, forefront of culinary excellence and you always manage to see a beautiful woman walking down the street.
Secret talent Soccer.
Hobbies Entertaining friends at home, experimenting with different foods, playing and watching soccer, running, making beer, learning more about wines.
Perfect Saturday night Spent with good friends, cooking and enjoying great wine.
Day off You’ll find me on a culinary adventure to try the latest restaurant/concept.
Career high When NoMI was awarded the Michelin Star.
Life complete Would be having my family closer.
If I won the lottery I would still show up to work tomorrow.
Superpower wish To read people’s mind. It would be extremely beneficial in my work environment.
Guilty pleasure Cheese.
Wish I’d known at 21 That college was about to end, and real life is tough.
In 10 years I see myself married with children and as a general manager of a luxury hotel.
Can talk forever about Food and wine.
Fave neighborhood Lincoln Park.
My autobiography “When in Doubt, Castle”
Ideal partner Friendly, easy to talk to, confident, mature, successful, ambitious and incredibly beautiful.
First thing I notice Her smile and eyes
Most memorable date Drinking coffee — which later turned into wine — next to a fireplace, in the middle of winter, while we talked about everything and nothing at all.
On first dates I’m usually not shy, I test the person’s character, make her laugh and make sure she is having a good time.
Meet the parents When I am confident she’s someone I see myself with in the long run.
Dating in Chicago It’s great, because there are a lot of beautiful women.
Date me because I am incredibly honest, generous, polite and easy to get along with.
And I love dogs, but I don’t like cats. Also, I’m always on the move.
Arturo Gomez
36
President of Rockit Ranch Productions
Hometown Lansing, Michigan
Current neighborhood Ukrainian Village
My family is Very important to me.
Friends say I’m driven, loyal, kind, funny.
Fun fact I have a crazy sense of humor.
Job perk I find inspiration in it every day.
Passion Anything food/wine related.
Chicago pride The people and Midwest hospitality.
Secret talent Reading people.
Life motto Seek and you shall find.
Hobby Scuba diving.
Perfect Saturday night Dinner with friends.
Day off Who gets days off?
Role models My parents.
Happiest day of my life I will let you know when I am 80.
Career high Winning Operator of the Year award.
Life complete Yet to be determined.
If I won the lottery I’d travel the world with no return date.
Superpower wish To fly.
Guilty pleasure Watching the National Geographic Channel.
Wish I’d known at 21 That life is full of surprises.
In 10 years I see myself owning hotels.
Can talk forever about Michigan football.
Nickname Arty the One Man Party.
Fave neighborhood Wicker Park.
My autobiography “Arty the One Man Party.”
Ideal partner Funny, smart, driven and gorgeous.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date Spent overlooking the beach drinking margaritas.
On first dates I’m full of energy.
Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t like dogs.
Meet the parents When the internal parental meter clicks.
Impressed a date by Buying her flowers.
Dating in Chicago Is great because it’s filled with tons of great girls.
Date me because I am entertaining.
And I’m an insane college football fan.
Brian A. Thompson
34
Consultant/President of Black & Essington Solutions, LLC
On the side Tinley Park Arts Council, Joliet Junior College Alumni Board
Hometown and Current neighborhood Joliet, Illinois
Friends say I’m competitive.
Job perk Helping businesses achieve their goals and control risk.
Passion Fitness training.
Chicago pride There’s always something to do.
Perfect Saturday night Pizza and a movie.
Day off You’ll find me running.
If I won the lottery I would be able to have a larger impact on my community.
First job Bussing tables.
Guilty pleasure M&M cookies.
Wish I’d known at 21 That education is power.
Can talk forever about Economics.
Fave neighborhood Gold Coast.
Ideal partner Intelligent.
First thing I notice How she treats other people.
Most memorable date Sledding and pizza.
Deal breaker Someone who lives unhealthy.
Dating in Chicago Is tough, because the best people are also busy people.
And I never give up.
Caroline Jung
36
Acupuncturist at Tiffani Kim Institute
On the side Secretary of Illinois Association of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, Board member Chicago Northwest Suburban Alumnae Club-Alpha Gamma Delta, PAWS, Lakeview Pantry
Hometown Memphis, Tennessee
Current neighborhood Andersonville
My family is Very important to me.
Friends say I’m outgoing and compassionate.
Job perk I love connecting with and building relationships with my patients.
Passion Animals.
Chicago pride Fast-paced energy and all of the opportunities it offers.
Life motto Live life to the fullest, coming from a place of love with every thought and action.
Hobbies Yoga, reading.
Perfect Saturday night Dinner and great conversation with my friends.
Day off You’ll find me at my favorite coffee shop reading the newspaper or at the gym.
If I won the lottery I’d buy a house in a secluded area of Hawaii.
Superpower wish Travel back in time and have dinner with Jackie Onassis and Marilyn Monroe.
First job Carhop at Sonic.
Guilty pleasure Cheese French fries.
In 10 years I see myself married with two children and growing my acupuncture business.
Nickname Cari.
Fave neighborhood Andersonville.
Ideal Partner Ambitious, outgoing, passionate and has a sense of humor.
First thing I notice His smile.
Most memorable date A surprise date out of town to a fabulous dinner and theater show in Nashville, Tennessee.
On first dates I’m usually talkative.
Deal breaker Talking disrespectfully of their mom.
Dating in Chicago It’s great, because there are so many people from various backgrounds and careers that it makes for an interesting date and conversation
Date me because I’m laid back and open to going out and just want to get to know my date better.
And I love to skydive.
Carrie Risatti
37
Attorney
On the side Inspired Youth Tutoring Program Board member, Washington & Lee University School of Law Alumni liaison, Chicago Bar Association, American Bar Association, Chicago Council on Global Affairs
Hometown Urbana, Illinois
Current neighborhood Lakeview
My family is Italian and Irish.
Fun fact I speak Italian.
Job perk I have the opportunity to help people achieve their goals.
Passion Helping women entrepreneurs succeed.
Chicago pride It’s a city with a big heart.
Secret talent Fashion design.
Life motto I can do anything to which I set my mind.
Hobbies International travel and working on a line of wedding gowns to be sold at my sister’s boutique in New York.
Perfect Saturday night Dinner and drinks with friends (and a significant other).
Day off You’ll find me running along the lake and working on my bridal business.
Role model My sister. She goes after her dreams with a level of courage and perseverance I have rarely seen in others.
Happiest day of my life I couldn’t pick just one day.
Life complete Is a husband and children.
If I won the lottery I’d give half to UNIFEM (United Nations Development Fund for Women) and I would invest the other half in my business.
First job Lifeguard at the local pool.
Guilty pleasure Cheesy movies.
Wish I’d known at 21 When to let it go.
In 10 years I see myself married with a family and a successful business.
Can talk forever about International travel.
Fave neighborhood Lakeview.
Ideal partner Witty, charming, intelligent, kind.
First thing I notice about someone Their body language.
On first dates I’m usually interested in getting to know my date.
Deal breaker Someone who is rude to other people.
Meet the parents When I think they’re “The One.”
Date me because I’m ready for anything.
Chloé Ifergan
33
Marketing Director for Charles Ifergan Salons and The Furla Franchise
On the side Oak Street Council, Lynn Sage
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Gold Coast
My family is Inspirational, high energy and crazy!
Friends say I’m outgoing, silly and light-hearted.
Fun fact I’m 70 percent deaf in my left ear.
Job perk Learning from my father. I’ve had the opportunity to learn from someone who is one of the best at what he does and is highly respected.
Passion Traveling and spending time with friends and family.
Chicago pride Sporting events are a blast, and the summers speak for themselves!
Life motto Always try to think in the now.
Hobbies Tennis, traveling, working out, reading.
Perfect Saturday night Dinner with my girlfriends.
Day off You’ll find me in bed or at brunch.
Role model My father.
Career high When I was granted the opportunity to run the Furla franchise in Chicago.
Life complete Starting my own family.
If I won the lottery I’d take a year off and travel the world. Or, maybe buy the Chicago Blackhawks.
Superpower wish To fly.
First job The Gap when I was 16.
Guilty pleasure Red wine.
Wish I’d known at 21 That the choices you make aren’t necessarily permanent.
In 10 years I see myself married with children.
Can talk forever about Fashion and hair.
Nickname Chloe-Dog.
Fave neighborhood Old Town.
Ideal partner Funny, intelligent, caring, considerate, driven.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date Flown first class to LA; floor seats at Lakers/Bulls game.
On first dates I’m usually nervous.
Deal breaker Someone with no sense of humor.
Meet the parents When it’s on my terms and I feel ready.
Impressed a date by Telling them I was nominated as a TCW 2011 Top Single!
Dating in Chicago Tough because although it’s a big city, there are a ton of overlapping connections, which makes it difficult to meet new people.
Date me because I’m honest, fun and pretty much enjoy every type of food!
And French was my first language. I’m first generation American; half French and half Moroccan.
Chris Macchia
31
Chef/Partner at Coco Pazzo Restaurant
On the side Too many to mention
Hometown Westchester, New York
Current neighborhood River North
My family is Italian-American and crazy.
Friends say I’m always working.
Fun fact I have a twin sister.
Chicago pride Chicago sports, Lake Michigan and how we have become a premier dining destination in the U.S.
Life motto Don’t worry about anything and everything will fall into place.
Hobbies Dining out, skiing, biking and drinking too much wine.
Perfect Saturday night Successful service at Coco Pazzo.
Day off You’ll find me at Delux Bar watching the Bears.
Role model Chef Paul Wildermuth, who tragically passed away in November.
Career high Receiving 3.5 stars from the Chicago Sun-Times.
Life complete Becoming a champion of my fantasy football league.
If I won the lottery I’d immediately move to the south of Italy.
Super power wish X-ray vision.
First job Dishwasher at a bakery. I took the job so I could leave everyday with free baked goods.
Guilty pleasure Bourbon.
Wish I’d known at 21 That I didn’t really know everything.
In 10 years I see myself owning and operating the most respected Neapolitan pizzeria in Chicago.
Can talk forever about Pizza.
Ideal partner Someone who knows how to have a good time, kick back and can turn a negative situation around.
First thing I notice Their smile.
Deal breaker Someone who isn’t into food and wine. Or someone who complains too much. It’s important to me to be with someone with a positive attitude and looks at what they do have and not what they don’t have.
Dating in Chicago Tough because of the long winter. I really enjoy being outside.
Date me because I’m a good conversationalist. I find it awkward to carry on a conversation with someone who doesn’t seem passionate about anything.
Chrishon Yvette Lampley
36
Owner of Three Peas Art Lounge
Hometown Downers Grove, Illinois
Current neighborhood North Kenwood
My family is My biggest support system.
Friends say I’m always there for them no matter what.
Job perk I love people.
Passion Football.
Chicago pride It’s a cleaner, nicer New York.
Secret talent Having perfect pitch.
Life motto I can only be me.
Perfect Saturday night Going to a great restaurant, drinking good wine and being around people that make me laugh.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date An old school concert with BBD, Troop, Mint Condition and Melvin Reilly.
On first dates I’m usually nervous and excited.
Deal breaker Someone who is insecure or unnecessarily cocky.
Meet the parents When they truly show their feelings and are sincere.
Impressed a date by Telling him NFL stats.
Day off I’ll be at the movies.
Role models My parents.
Happiest day of my life When we opened for business at my gallery.
Career high Developed our own line of wines.
Life complete A special someone to enjoy it with.
If I won the lottery I’d take my family to travel around the world.
Superpower wish To read people’s minds.
First job Jewelry counter of Venture department store.
Guilty pleasure Reality TV and Oreo cookies and cream-flavored ice cream.
Wish I had known at 21 That not everyone lives in your fairytale.
In 10 years I see myself owning several galleries and traveling with my family.
Can talk forever about Travel and business.
Nickname CL Smooth.
Fave neighborhood South Loop.
My autobiography “I Made It Happen.”
Ideal partner Strong, attentive, romantic, makes me laugh, spoils me and lets me have my way, yet puts me in my place.
Dating in Chicago Is tough because some men may be intimidated that I’m a business owner until they see how cool and down to earth I am.
Date me because I’m open to new experiences.
And I’m very giving and honest.
Christine Kurban
34
Marketing Executive and Entrepreneur
On the side Board of Directors for Step Up Women’s Network, Chair of Shine & Dine Gala
Hometown Wauconda, Illinois
Current neighborhood East Lakeview
My family Is fun and open to engaging in deep conversation about life to better understand others. They are also generous and thoughtful, always thinking about others.
Friends say I’m fun, social and light up the room with high fives and enthusiasm. They also say that I’m passionate, committed and offer insightful perspectives about life experiences.
Fun fact In high school I played on the U.S. soccer team, placing second in the Junior World Cup in Europe.
Job perk Building and creating new ideas, products and services in both my marketing role and in my business, Belly Vita.
Passion Continually growing spiritually, emotionally, intellectually and physically.
Chicago pride When you go to the lakefront in the summer, you feel like you’re in a beach town.
Secret talent I’m a little psychic.
Life mottos Have courage, laugh and dance as often as possible. And maintain integrity in moments of truth.
Hobbies Spending time with family and friends, yoga, Pilates, running, cooking, reading, writing, painting and photography. Yes, I have a lot!
Perfect Saturday night Having fun with friends.
Day off You’ll find me on the lakefront in the summer and watching movies or sitting at a coffee shop in the winter.
Role model My brother. He has the utmost integrity and loves passionately.
Career high Sitting at a coffee shop with my business partner and seeing our vision come to life after three years of research and development as we unveiled our first prototype of the Belly Imprint, Belly Vita’s signature product.
Life complete Creating a family.
If won the lottery I’d buy an island and live there during the winter months of Chicago.
Superpower wish Time travel.
First job Going on the paper route.
Guilty pleasures Anything chocolate and red wine.
Wish I’d known at 21 That I would feel happier and live with more joy every year I get older and wiser.
In 10 years I see myself at the pinnacle of my success with my business and enjoying my beautiful family.
Can talk forever about Human behavior and ways to feel more happiness in life.
Nicknames Kirby and Kurbs.
Fave neighborhood Old Town.
My autobiography “Laugh ‘til you Snort: Embracing your Authentic Self.”
Ideal partner Should be committed to personal growth, intelligent, funny and has great character.
First thing I notice A person’s demeanor when interacting with others.
Most memorable date Flying to Oregon to go wine tasting.
On first dates, I’m usually engaging and asking questions.
Deal breaker Self-centeredness.
Dating in Chicago Is great because the city is filled with single, down-to-earth people.
Date me because We’ll always have a good time.
And I can’t wait to have a dog one day.
Clark Lichty
28
Entrepreneur/Fitness trainer
Hometown Waterloo, Iowa
Current neighborhood Old Town
My family is Huge – I grew up on a farm in Iowa with five brothers and endless cousins.
Friends say I’m a smart ass, yet a hard working guy who is outgoing and spontaneous. There’s never a dull moment.
Fun fact I have five brothers and we are all smart asses to each other. Anything goes at the dinner table. It’s truly a riot every time I’m home.
Passion My family and friends. I love traveling and trying new things. I’m up for anything.
Chicago pride There’s so much food to choose from and there are things going on all the time.
Life motto Work hard, play harder…never take life too seriously.
Hobbies Biking, running, working out, listening to music, traveling, movies, eating good food, bungee jumping, sky diving and long walks on the beach.
Perfect Saturday night Having a glass of wine or a beer with friends, enjoying a live music show.
Day off Enjoying a new restaurant. I love food.
Happiest day of my life I’m happy every day.
Life complete Traveling the world every day of my life.
First job Working on the family farm – milking cows, baling hay, feeding hogs and cattle. And no, there’s no such thing as cow tipping.
Guilty pleasure Ice cream. Enough said.
Can talk for forever about Food.
Nickname C-Bass. “Dumb and Dumber,” anyone?
Fave neighborhood Old Town.
Ideal partner Outgoing, funny, smart, generous, supportive and spontaneous.
First thing I notice Eyes and smile.
Deal breaker A smoker.
Impressed a date by It’s the small things that count. I’m all about finding the small things about a person, and try to think of clever things to do, get or say.
Date me because I’m fun to be around.
Cynthia Mufarreh
35
Vice President, Sales Effectiveness of Harris Bank
On the side Auxiliary Board Member at Chicago Children’s Museum
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Addison, Illinois
Chicago pride It will forever be home.
Life motto Stay genuine, use humor and surround myself with interesting, kind people.
Hobbies Traveling, writing and biking.
Role models Unequivocally, my lovely, compassionate Khalto (aunt) Randa and my wise, beautiful super friend Laureen. They’ve had the best, most meaningful impact in my life. Bar none.
If I won the lottery I’d buy everyone reading this issue a drink.
First job My family’s restaurant making toast at age seven. I stood on a crate so I could reach the counter. “Order of rye coming up, Dad!”
Guilty pleasure Oprah. I watch every single Oprah show and read every single O magazine cover to cover.
I wish I’d known at 21 That I didn’t need to take myself so seriously.
In 10 years I see myself continuing to enjoy my life as it gets better and better.
Can talk forever about almost Anything, if I’m talking with the right person.
Ideal partner Someone that keeps me grounded, is supportive and makes me laugh.
First thing I notice If there’s twinkle (not a twitch) in his eye.
Most memorable date Being with a Reds fan at Wrigley during Cubs/Reds game where the Cubs (gasp!) won. I got a delicious steak dinner from that bet. Thanks Cubbies!
On first dates I’m usually optimistic.
Impressed a date by Learning everything I could about March Madness.
Daphne E. Ortiz
39
prAlliance/Freelance Publicist
On the side Step Up Women’s Network, Junior League North Shore
Hometown Lowell, Indiana
Current neighborhood Gold Coast
My family Doesn’t understand my job and what I do.
Friends say I’m always on the go.
Fun fact I commute to LA every other week and keep an apartment there.
Job perk I get to experience the most amazing things…award shows, Superbowls, All Star Games…
Chicago pride It has the most down to earth people!
Secret talent I’m a spelling genius!
Life motto God doesn’t give you anything you can’t handle.
Hobbies Reading, hiking, fishing, marathon running.
Perfect Saturday night A sporting event and dinner with friends.
Day off I’m at a Bears, Bulls, Hawks or Cubs game.
Role model Jane Fonda.
Happiest day of my life When I finished my first marathon.
Career high Landing a client on Oprah.
Life complete Someone to share all the fun stuff I get to do.
If I won the lottery I’d buy a jet, since I’m flying every week!
Superpower wish To teleport.
First job A paralegal.
Guilty pleasure Lifetime television.
Wish I’d known at 21 To appreciate when a guy brings you a rose on the first date. No one does that now!
In 10 years I see myself with an adopted child.
Can talk forever about Anything and everything.
Nickname Daph.
Fave neighborhood Gold Coast.
My autobiography “That Girl!”
Ideal partner Thoughtful, loves sports, smart and outgoing.
First thing I notice Teeth.
Most memorable date Going running together, then lunch on the beach.
On first dates I’m usually shy.
Deal breaker Rudeness.
Impressed a date by Brushing up on my footballs scores.
Dating in Chicago Is great because the city has so much to offer in things to do…sporting, theater, parks, restaurants…it’s my favorite!
Date me because I’m fun!
And I don’t know how to apply makeup due to my mother not allowing me to wear it when I was young!
David Grass
29
Marketing Agent, Account Director for Sports, Entertainment & Nightlife Promotional Marketing
On the side Francis W. Parker School Alumni Committee, Northwestern University “N Club” Member
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood River North
My family is Supportive, loving and caring. They taught me at a young age to work hard, play hard and smile. Although, my sister is a handful.
Friends say I’m loyal, witty, charismatic and have an excellent work ethic and sense of humor. They would also say I’m a character.
Job perk I’m a sports fanatic and I’m privileged to work in a field that I’m passionate about.
Passion My family, friends, the Chicago Cubs (to a fault), Northwestern basketball, working out and fine dining.
Chicago pride It’s home. Going for a run along the lakefront, being at Wrigley Field by 1:20pm, followed by a night out on the town…It doesn’t get much better.
Life motto Nothing great has ever been accomplished without enthusiasm.
Perfect Saturday night Combination of drinks, dinner and a lot of laughter.
Day off You’ll find me at Wrigley Field, on the golf course (in the woods looking for my ball) or on the East Bank Club sundeck.
Role models My parents.
Career high Flying to Iceland and negotiating a sponsorship deal with an Icelandic rock band.
If I won the lottery I really wouldn’t change much about my life with the exception of buying the Chicago Cubs.
Superpower wish Have you seen the movie, “What Women Want?”
First job Startup lemonade stand in front of my childhood home in Lincoln Park at the age of seven. I sold the business to a nine year old for a hefty sum.
Guilty pleasure A smiley face cookie, the defining measure of a quality deli.
In 10 years I see myself owning my own sports and entertainment marketing company.
Can talk forever About almost anything.
Nickname Dgrass.
My autobiography “The Grass Is Always Greener.”
Ideal partner Sociable, attractive, career-oriented with pizzazz.
First thing I notice Smile.
On first dates I’m usually equal parts talker and listener.
Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t prioritize family and friends.
Meet the parents When she becomes my best friend or when my mom has asked over 2,000 questions about her.
Date me because My charm and up-for-anything attitude. Dive bar? Five-course-meal? Bowling? For me, it’s all about the company.
And That’s enough about me, let’s talk about you!
David Pavlik
29
Budget Manager Governor’s Office of Management and Budget
On the side Candidate for 32nd Ward Alderman, Auxiliary Co-Founder and Board Member for Teach for America, Ambassador for University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign and Member of St. Ignatius Young Alumni
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Roscoe Village
My family is My rock.
Friends say I’m loyal and give good advice.
Fun fact I am ambidextrous.
Job perk I’m able to make a positive impact in the lives of folks across Illinois. Also, every day presents new challenges.
Passion Paying it forward.
Chicago pride It’s home.
Secret talent I can walk on my hands.
Life motto “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena…” – Theodore Roosevelt
Hobbies Eating, eating and more food.
Perfect Saturday night Low-key – a great meal and spending time with someone special.
Day off Hanging out with friends and family.
Role model My mom.
Happiest day of my life Still to come.
Career high Filing my petitions for candidacy for alderman of the 32nd ward with my mom right next to me.
Life complete When I have a beautiful wife and children to share life’s experiences with.
If I won the lottery Honestly, I’d first try to do some good with it; maybe set up a charity for victims of domestic abuse. Then, of course, buy the best home theater system possible for myself.
Superpower wish To be invisible – for a bunch of reasons.
First job Picking up garbage at the Taste of Chicago.
Guilty pleasure Tina Turner’s “What’s Love Got To Do With It?”
I wish I’d known at 21 That you usually end up exactly where you need to be.
In 10 years I see myself settled down but still working hard.
Can talk forever about Anything as long as I am in good company.
Nickname Donkey. (Don’t get any ideas. It’s because I’ve always been a strong Democrat.)
Fave neighborhood 32nd Ward
My autobiography “Give Till It Hurts, It’ll Pay Off In The End.”
Ideal partner Intelligent, confident, motivated, strong-willed and beautiful.
First thing I notice Smile. Gotta have a great smile!
Most memorable date Haven’t had it yet…
First dates I’m usually a nervous wreck even if it doesn’t show.
Deal breaker Isn’t interested in having a family one day.
Meet the parents When I can’t bear to have to split my time between the family and that special someone.
Impressed a date by Surprising her with flowers at work while she was working a night shift.
Dating in Chicago Great because Chicago women are great-looking, smart and still down-to-Earth. Also, there are so many opportunities for adventure.
Date me because I’m a gentleman. I always hold the door, there are usually flowers involved, etc. – the whole nine yards.
And I have a huge soft spot for homeless people.
Eddie Lou
39
General Partner at OCA Ventures
On the side Co-Founder and Executive Board member of Urban Students Empowered
Hometown Bartlesville, Oklahoma
Current neighborhood River North
My family is Very important to me.
Friends say I’m outgoing, active and good-natured.
Fun fact I was a city chess champion when I was a teenager.
Job perk Working with energetic, passionate entrepreneurs.
Passion My charity that is impacting over 500 urban students.
Secret talent Solving problems. I’m logical and know how to take scattered amounts of information and draw conclusions.
Life motto Live as if you will die tomorrow and learn as if you will live forever.
Hobbies Triathlons, adventure racing, traveling and meeting new people.
Perfect Saturday night Hanging out with friends in the city.
Role model Nelson Mandela.
Happiest day of my life Finishing my first Ironman race.
Career high Being able to fund the start-up of my charity.
Life complete Starting a family.
If I won the lottery I’d take a six-month sabbatical and travel to at least 12 countries.
Guilty pleasure Chocolate dessert.
In 10 years I see myself continuing a successful career and having a family.
Ideal partner Adventuresome, intelligent, spontaneous and good-hearted.
First thing I notice Smile.
Most memorable date Included great conversation, live music and ended with a first kiss as the sun rose over Lake Michigan.
Deal breaker Someone who is self-centered or has a poor sense of humor.
Impressed a date by Walking the red carpet before the American Music Awards.
Date me because I’m caring, ambitious and romantic.
And I was voted “class geek” in 6th grade.
Elizabeth Hamel
28
Society Columnist for the Chicago Sun-Times
Hometown Winter Park, Florida
Current neighborhood Bucktown
My family is Eclectic. They live all over the country. I don’t see them much, but when we do get together, sometimes things get a little interesting.
Friends say I’m driven, fun and loyal.
Fun fact I hate Disney World. Being from the Orlando area, I quickly became jaded with the Mouse.
Job perk I get to meet so many different people and see some of the most beautiful museums and spaces in Chicago…all while sipping Champagne.
Passion Food and the vibrant Chicago culinary scene.
Chicago pride No matter if you feel like no one understands you, I know the city is there with all its familiar sounds, sights and scenes. It is really hard to feel lonely here.
Secret talent I have a very long attention span. I can concentrate on something for hours.
Life motto Life’s not easy, but if you work really hard and treat people well, it can be a lot of fun.
Hobbies Riding horses, cooking and reading all the classic literature I never got to in college.
Perfect Saturday night Nice dinner and drinks with friends.
Day off At home, in front of the TV watching PBS.
Role model My mother. She is my rock and the most amazing woman I have ever met.
Career high First time I saw my photo and byline on my page. It was so surreal.
If I won the lottery I’d still work. I think I would always work. I would be so bored without my job.
Superpower wish To be invisible…or to read people’s minds. Either one would be great.
First job Hostess at a breakfast spot in Winter Park, Florida when I was 16 years old.
Guilty pleasure Pink Champagne.
Can talk forever about Food.
Nickname Beth. But only my mother calls me that.
Ideal partner A chef or someone that shares my passion for food and eating out.
First thing I notice Sense of humor. I rarely go out with traditionally “hot” guys; rather, there is always that something else that I am attracted to, but I can’t put my finger on what it is. I like to call it “ism.”
Most memorable date Was at Alinea. After the 4 hour-long meal, we went to a neighborhood bar for shots and beers. It was a perfect dichotomy of fancy and low-brow.
First dates I’m usually way too talkative. I tend to put it all out on the table from the beginning. My friends remind me that first dates are like job interviews, to only let them know a little about yourself, and to stay mysterious. But I never listen.
Deal breaker Someone who cares more about going to the gym than hanging out with me.
Meet the parents When I know he will be around for a while. I have a 12 -year -old sister, and I don’t want her to meet and start to like someone that I date, only to have them be gone the next week.
Dating in Chicago Great because it feels like guys from all over the Midwest come here after college to meet and find the girl they’ll marry.
Date me because I’m not too needy. I have my own friends and my own life. You can keep yours.
Elysabeth Alfano
43
Creator/Producer/Host of Fear No ART Chicago on WTTW
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood East Rogers Park
Friends say I’m affectionate and outgoing.
Job perk I meet so many fascinating people and get to dive into the arts.
Passion Animals: everything from the dog to the Komodo dragon is on my love list.
Secret talent Languages: French, Italian and German, with a tad bit of Spanish.
Life motto It doesn’t matter what people say. It matters what people do
Day off Traveling around the world. I usually try to take one 3-week trip abroad a year. The more remote and distant the better.
Perfect Saturday night Cooking at home with friends for a dinner party or staying in with wine, food, my pets and my date.
Hobbies Cooking, languages, creative writing, tennis, jogging, swimming and improv classes.
Career high When the reviews came back from the first “Fear No ART Chicago” show on WTTW and that all the feedback was the same. Everyone said they felt connected to the arts due to the approachable and entertaining format, and the reach numbers were through the roof. My second proudest career moment is when I auditioned for the Animal Planet and was brought up on stage for a second audition with Steve Irwin and a 60-pound boa.
And I lived in Paris for three years.
First job Working at Water Tower Movie Theatre.
Guilty pleasure Nutella straight from the jar. Are you with me?
In 10 years I see myself writing short stories in a converted barn in Italy.
My autobiography “Let’s Dive In!”
Ideal partner Secure in who they are and affectionate.
First thing I notice How they treat other people.
Most memorable date A spontaneous road trip to Venice at 3am.
Meet the parents When I can’t stop thinking about them, and I know they feel the same.
Deal breaker Someone who doesn’t like animals.
Ernest Wilkins
25
Social Media/Events Producer at RedEye/Metromix Chicago
On the side Windy City Seminoles, American Red Cross of Greater Chicago Auxiliary Board
Hometown Homewood, Illinois
Current neighborhood North Center
Friends say I’m the life of the party. I know that’s a bit played out to say, but come out with me sometime or come to an event I throw and see for yourself.
Job perkI basically get to act as the wingman for the entire city of Chicago. Over at the RE-mix (www.redeyechicago.com/remix), my main goal is to cut through the hyperbole and fluff that comes with nightlife and concentrate on bringing people good times. Chicagoans work hard so I try and bring them the awesome on a regular basis.
Passion Reading. I have to have a book around me at all times.
Secret talent Answering any and all random pop culture questions.
Life motto Smile if you’re winning.
Role model A combo of my mom, my aunt, Frank Thomas and Flip Wilson.
Career high It’s a tie between re-creating “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” in its entirety in the time it took them to do it in the film and getting something I helped create mentioned in Jay Leno’s monologue.
If won the lottery In this order, I would: Buy my grandmother a new house, give my mom some dough so she can retire, completely wipe out my loans, donate to some quality causes, buy a house on Lake Como, put some rainy day cash away and then throw the biggest rager of all time. OF. ALL. TIME.
Guilty pleasure Disco. Seriously, the more synth, the better.
In 10 years I see myself succeeding Jimmy Fallon as the new host of “Late Night” (Hopefully I would get to keep The Roots!)
Ideal partner Is good in various social situations, is interested in the world around them and fun to be around.
First thing I notice about someone Ishow they carry themselves in a room.
On first dates I’m usually trying to get rid of the “job interview” vibe and try to make her as comfortable as possible.
Deal breaker Cigarette smokers. I’d rather eat a brick sandwich.
Dating in Chicago Is great because there’s a lot of diversity. But it’s also tough because it’s the biggest small town in America. Everyone knows everyone.
Felicia N. Rauls
34
Commodities Associate at Mesirow Financial
Hometown Army brat who hails from Chicago
Current neighborhood Lakeshore East
My family is the best! They are very diverse, always supportive and a lot of fun to be around. I simply adore them.
Fun fact I use to play the oboe…quite well.
Job perk The people I work with. I know that sounds cheesy, but I really do work with a great group. They’re the perfect blend of professionalism, business savvy and fun.
Chicago pride It’s diverse on so many different levels and there’s always something to do whether it’s enjoying the arts, a sports event, new restaurant or shopping. Chicago has it all!
Life motto Arm yourself with knowledge and you’ll have all the confidence you’ll need.
Hobbies Drawing and painting. Basically, anything creative and artsy-fartsy.
Perfect Saturday night Begins with a catnap, involves lots laughing and lively conversation, great wine, great food and great company.
Day off You’ll find me visiting with family and friends, trying out a new recipe or reorganizing a random closet or drawer.
Role models My grandmothers. My Granny on my mom’s side is so strong and was way ahead of her time. My grandmother on my dad’s side gives love unconditionally.
Guilty pleasures Brunch, cupcakes and shopping at Target. I’m always up for any one of them!
In 10 years I see myself happily married with kids…white picket fence…you know, the whole nine yards. But, most importantly…happy!
Nickname Fe…although I’m also affectionately known as FeFe, Fo and Flea.
Fave neighborhood Lakeshore East.
And I’ve been a vegetarian for seven years and although I work in finance, my degree is in Art History.
Ideal partner He’s half man and half amazing, loves to laugh and is somewhat quirky.
First thing I notice Whether or not I feel an instant connection.
Most memorable date A surprise weekend trip to Argentina.
On first dates I’m usually open-mined.
Deal breaker Someone who disrespects me.
Impressed a date by Turning down the sarcasm. I didn’t think he was ready for that side of me!
Date me because I’m a laid-back, very “go with the flow” type of person. I’m also super supportive and willing to go the extra mile.
Jamie Baisley
36
Executive Recruiting/Managing Director for Laramie Group, LLC
On the side Chairman of the President’s Leadership Council at Loyola Academy and mentor for the PEAK program at Holy Trinity High School in Chicago
Hometown Glencoe, Illinois
Current neighborhood West Loop
My family is big. I’m the youngest of seven, and I have 24 nieces and nephews.
Friends say I’m sarcastic, driven and fun loving.
Fun fact I can speak a little German.
Job perk I get to help people make their next career move.
Passion Fishing
Chicago pride I love Chicago because of my family and close friends.
Secret talent I can jump rope well.
Role models My parents.
Happiest day of my life Has not happened yet.
If won the lottery I’d keep working.
Guilty pleasure Cookies.
Ideal partner Normal and fun.
First thing I notice Teeth/smile.
On first dates I’m usually talking too much.
Deal breakers Someone who cares what I drive or what watch I’m wearing.
Dating in Chicago Is tough, because it’s difficult to meet people.
Jeannette Cherie Pawula
27
Founder of Charity4LIFE and Associate for Hightower Advisors
On the side Epic Man, Great Lakes Mastiff Rescue Foster Volunteer, Cycle for Survival, Kohl’s Step up For Kids
Hometown Des Plaines, Illinois
Current neighborhood Roscoe Village
Friends say I live a very spontaneous and exciting life. I’m typically described as a warm and giving humanitarian. I’m also known to be a huge traveler. I’m always on a plane traveling to some new place and taking on new challenges in my life. Everyone who knows me knows I have a lust and thrill for exploration.
Fun fact I was on season nine’s “The Bachelor: Rome” and made it to the final five.
Job perk It connects my two passions in life: traveling and working with children. Charity4LIFE enables me to save the lives of street children in some of the poorest countries. I’m able to explore new countries and connect with people from different culture backgrounds while experiencing the simultaneous joy and pain of life in third world countries. My work has changed my entire outlook on life.
Passion Continuously exploring and trying new things. I have rock climbed, gone on safaris, ski dived, flown a plane, raced a race car, hike volcanoes, swam with great whites, traveled with no plans, switched careers, taken dance classes, cooking classes, attended plays…you name it! I really just crave knowledge and will never say no to new learning opportunities.
Chicago pride The city is so vibrant with life and culture. The Chicago mentality creates a rare bunch of friendly, generous and down-to-earth people who love to have fun. I truly believe Chicago is one of the best cities in the world to live in.
Life motto I am a student of life.
Hobbies Travel, humanitarian work, reading, Vinyasa and Bikram Yoga, meditation and spending time with my dog, Caesar.
Perfect Saturday night Lighting candles and drawing a peppermint bubble bath accompanied by a glass of Champagne and Andre Bocelli.
Day off I’m most likely in a different country.
Role model Barton Brooks, founder of Guerrilla Aid for Global Colors.
Happiest day of my life Was the day I met my foster dog Caesar, my 120-pound English mastiff that I have since adopted.
Life complete I feel whole because I understand that where I am today is where I am supposed to me.
Superpower wish I would travel at lightning speed – that way I would be able to see the entire world in one lifetime.
First job Worked at Big Ern’s, a hot dog restaurant where I left work greased up every day from cooking hot dogs and burgers. I was 15 and paid $5/hour.
Guilty pleasure Watching “Bachelor Pad.” Since I was on the “Bachelor” it’s interesting to watch friends and acquaintances of mine on TV!
Wish I’d known at 21 That life is about modesty and humiliation. The older I get the younger I feel at heart. You can’t plan your life, instead, you have to move with life’s rhythm. In order to fully love yourself you must accept yourself for who you are in that moment.
Can talk forever about My dog Caesar, and about the circumstances surrounding the countries I support.
Nickname Spaghetti.
Fave neighborhood Lincoln Square.
My autobiography “Journey.”
Ideal partner Is my best friend – a man who embraces life and one whom is an active participant exploration and continual growth.
First thing I notice Smile. It’s in a smile that I am able to recognize if one radiates warmth, a trait to me that is most valuable to me in a man.
Most memorable date Visiting the opera.
On first dates I’m usually very calm. I always look forward to meeting new individuals and never feel pressure to connect, for every person you meet serves a valuable lesson. Even if there is not a love connection, the conversation can carry profound lessons in life. And hey, maybe he’s not my type, but one of my single girlfriend’s soul mates!
Deal breaker Arrogance. I lack respect for men who treat others as inferior.
Meet the parents When I know he’ll be an excellent player at Wii Rock Band, one of my family’s traditions!
Dating in Chicago Is tough. Not to generalize, but I’m a traveler and have a very broad perspective on life. The sometimes tunnel vision that results from the overall Midwest mentality is very limiting.
Date me because I’m very real and down-to-Earth and think I have the ability to really touch, move and inspire others towards living their greatest life.
Jeffery Beckham Jr.
30
Medical Diagnostic Sales/Professional Sales Representative/Quest Diagnostics Web & Graphic Design and Owner of Black Box Creative LLC
On the side New Faith Baptist Church International, Swish Dreams and motivational speaker at numerous Chicago area high schools
Hometown Hazel Crest, Illinois
Current neighborhood Hyde Park
My family is The most important thing to me. My parents, sister and nephew are my greatest support system and cheering section.
Friends say I’m driven, smart, ambitious and dependable. They’d also say I’m a bit picky when it comes to dating as well.
Fun fact I love music and if I could I’d work in music in some capacity as a writer, producer or performer.
Job perk Working with clients. I love being a consultant and helping my clients find what they need in order to be successful.
Passions Improving the lives of others in need through service work in church and in the community.
Chicago pride It’s a city with so much personality. Chicago has big city charm, but at any point you can drive a few miles and find pockets of the building blocks of America – that small town feeling that our nation still maintains. There’s always something to do and you can meet wonderful people here.
Secret talent I can sing and I write (blog/working on a book).
Life motto Treat others the way you want to be treated and remember to whom much has been given much is required.
Hobbies Playing basketball at the gym, watching movies and finding new ways to use my gadgets.
Perfect Saturday night A good dinner, movies and laughing with friends at a party or someone’s house.
Day off You’ll find me either at the gym or in front of a computer at Starbucks on Roosevelt Road and Canal Street teaching myself a new Photoshop or social media skill.
Role models My parents. Even at 30, I learn something new from them all the time. Their diligence, faith and intelligence is awesome and I respect them immensely.
Happiest day of my life When I graduated from the University of Missouri surrounded by my family and friends.
Career high Being asked to speak on Health Care IT and the role of technology in the changing landscape of medicine this past year. It’s an honor to be viewed as an expert on something.
Life complete There are many things I want, but ultimately the continued health and happiness of my family is all I need.
If won the lottery I’d probably be broke soon because I would help as many people as I could.
Superpower wish Super speed. It would give me more time to do things in the day.
First job Served as a staff member at a pool in my neighborhood.
Guilty pleasure Eating good pizza and drinking Pepsi while watching the Bulls or Bears.
Wish I’d known at 21 That Google stock would do so well. I should have bought a ton of it. Aside from that, I wish I knew the word “friend” is one that should be used sparingly.
In 10 years, I see myself married with a family running a healthcare technology company and speaking at schools, encouraging young people to believe in themselves.
Can talk forever about Music.
Nickname Ollie. It’s short for my middle name, Oliver.
Fave neighborhood South Loop. It has some of the great places to relax, get food and enjoy time with friends.
My autobiography “You Think You Know…But You Have No Idea.”
And I love sports – all of them – but I truly love the Bears, Bulls, Sox and Hawks. I even like the Cubs! I love Chicago!
Ideal partner Smart with a great sense of humor. She’s got a positive outlook and classic beauty. She knows how to dress with style and walks by faith. She operates with quiet grace, she’s confident and can hold her own in any arena.
First thing I notice A woman’s smile. A pretty face always catches my attention!
Most memorable date It was really simple. We ordered Indian food in and played Nintendo Wii all night. Funny thing is, I’m usually one who loves to go to the hot restaurant or new bar/lounge, but this was just so much fun.
On first dates, I’m usually a lot of fun. I was raised to be a gentleman so the chivalrous acts usually catch women off guard. However, I was taught that a man treats women with respect.
Deal breaker Smokers and a mean personality. I just can’t do the mean woman. If you have that evil chip on your shoulder, keep it to yourself.
Meet the parents When we’ve built a friendship that’s sustainable even if we stop dating.
Impressed a date by Cooking a full meal. I’m a great cook. I’d do it more often if I could.
Dating in Chicago Is great because there is always something fun to do. It’s also tough because it’s so cold out that the best women don’t want to go out!
Date me because Even if it’s not a romantic interest, I’m a good person to know and have as a friend. I’m always going to be a gentleman and will always be fun. Fun is something I know how to do well.
Jesse DeSoto
31
Owner at Fred Astaire Dance Studios
On the side ASPCA/The Bridge in Palatine
Hometown Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Current neighborhood Lake Zurich
Friends say I can adapt to any social situation.
Job perk Helping others to achieve their goals.
Passion Music.
Life motto Only get involved in deals where everyone wins.
Hobbies Playing guitar and painting.
Perfect Saturday night A movie in my pajamas.
Day off You’ll still find me at work.
Role model My father.
Career high Buying the company I worked for.
Life complete Having my father back.
If won the lottery I’d open a private school.
Superpower wish I would be bullet proof.
First job I was a bus boy at an Italian restaurant.
My guilty pleasure Sour Patch Kids.
Wish I’d known at 21 That not everyone you love will be around forever.
In 10 years I see myself retired.
Can talk forever about Positive thinking.
Ideal partner Someone who is career-minded, but knows what’s truly valuable in life.
First thing I notice The way someone walks.
On first dates I’m usually reserved.
Deal braker Someone who does not fear God.
And Even at 31 years old, I still play video games.
Jessica D’Onofrio
33
Reporter for ABC-7
On the side Temple Sholom Soup Kitchen
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Lakeview
Friends say I have a great sense of humor.
Fun fact I am a character in a Steven Soderbergh play. Seriously.
Job perk I love my job because it’s different everyday.
Passions Family and friends.
Chicago Pride For me, Chicago is home.
Secret talent I can sing.
Hobbies Cooking, sailing, volunteering and going to live events.
Perfect Saturday night Going to dinner with friends.
Day off You’ll find me running errands or at a movie.
Career high Getting hired at ABC-7.
Life complete Would include marriage and children or a skybox at Soldier Field.
If won the lottery I’d find a great financial advisor.
Superpower wish It would be the power to make it 78 degrees and sunny almost everyday.
Guilty pleasure Milk chocolate covered pretzels and massages!
Fave neighborhood Old Town.
Ideal partner Is thoughtful.
First thing I notice Hands and teeth.
On first dates I’m usually paying attention.
Deal breakers Smokers.
Meet the parents When I know he truly cares about me.
Jessica Zweig
29
Entrepreneur and Co-founder of www.CheekyChicago.com
On the side Vital Bridges
Hometown Highland Park, Illinois
Current neighborhood Old Town
My family is Amazing. I’m blessed that I come from supportive, fun, generous parents who raised me with strong morals and even stronger love. My brother is one of my favorite people on the planet. If he wasn’t my brother, he’d be my friend. I can’t say enough positive things about my family.
Friends say I’m passionate, driven, loving and loyal. They’d also call me the “social director” of our group of friends. I basically live for fun.
Fun fact I used to be a professional actress. You may have seen me in national commercials or in a feature film (or two), and you may have heard my voice on the radio.
Job perk I get to wake up every day, do what I love and work for myself. I literally conceptualized Cheeky on post-it notes. It’s a testament that you can accomplish anything you put your mind to.
Passion My friends. I know that sounds cliché, but my friends are truly my life. They are the family I got to choose.
Life motto Life is now.
Perfect Saturday night Going to a fabulous restaurant, enjoying amazing food and wine, being with great company and having great conversation.
Day off You’ll find me taking yoga with a friend, brunching somewhere new, possibly shopping for some new home décor and/or relaxing with a great book or my DVR.
Role model My grandfather. He was the most loyal, hardworking and loving man I’ve ever known.
Happiest day of my life Honestly, every day is pretty happy.
Career high Cheeky’s two-year anniversary party. Looking around a room full of more than 600 people who came out to support what was originally just an idea was completely overwhelming and amazing.
Life complete To own a puppy. I’m not kidding.
If won the lottery I’d buy my parents a summer home in Santa Fe, New Mexico and then I’d travel the world.
Superpower wish I would have a remote control on life to hit the fast forward, rewind and pause buttons.
Guilty pleasure Every show on Bravo.
Wish I’d known at 21 That I’ll always have enough time for the things that truly matter.
Can talk forever about Fate, serendipity, spirituality and the power of the universe.
Fave neighborhood Old Town. Yes, it’s my own, so call me biased. But it’s perfect.
My autobiography Not sure, but I think the word “butterfly” would be in it somewhere.
Ideal partner Someone with passion, a zest for life and a great sense of humor, an open mind and a loyal heart. He also needs to have ambition and passion for his own career, family, friends and social life.
First thing I notice Eyes. It’s all about that instant connection via eye contact.
Most memorable date It was super simple. We went to a casual bar and just talked for hours over a bottle of wine.
Deal breaker A lack of serious life goals and bad hygiene.
Meet the parents When it feels right.
Impressed a date by Cooking an incredible dinner. Good food is a way to anyone’s heart.
Date me because What you see is what you get. I am extremely openhearted and open-minded.
And I’m really down-to-earth. Nothing turns me off more than snobbery and insincerity. Also, I love to laugh. I have a laugh-so-hard-it-hurts laugh.
John Hall
46
Fitness professional and owner of John Hall Studios
On the side National Strength and Conditioning Association, International Kettlebell & Fitness Federation, International Youth Fitness Association
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood South Loop
My family Has been into the fitness industry for more than 50 years.
Friends say I’m very social and personable. I’m very regimented and meticulous.
Fun fact I’m really a softie and very affectionate towards someone I care for.
Job perk I have the pleasure of helping people change their lifestyles and transform their bodies. Connecting with great people is what makes my profession fun.
Passion Fashion. I’m currently designing my own line of fitness apparel.
Chicago pride The change of seasons makes Chicago a great city along with architecture and great places to patron.
Life motto Live by example.
Hobbies Golf.
Day off You’ll find me on a golf course (weather permitting).
Career high Opening my first studio
If won the lottery, I’d give 75 percent away to a needy cause.
First job Delivering newspapers.
Guilty pleasure Peanut butter cookies.
My autobiography Funny that you asked; I’m working on a fitness book that is basically about my life and how I train.
Ideal partner Someone that touches my inner soul.
First thing I notice Eyes.
On first dates, I’m usually very observant
Deal breaker I’d never date someone who is not into fitness.
Meet the parents When I have that anxious feeling in my heart.
Date me because What you see is what you get.
Kendra Peterson
29
Chef and owner of Drizzle Kitchen Private Chef Services and Boutique Catering
On the side Step Up Women’s Network, St. Jude Hospital
Hometown Mount Prospect, Illinois
Current neighborhood West Loop
My family is My backbone.
Fun fact I can make anything out of Popsicle sticks.
Job perk I get to inspire people through food every single day.
Secret talent I am a one woman “SNL” show.
Life motto The belly feeds the mind.
Day off You’ll find me cooking with friends, running, taking a ballet class, watching my nieces and nephews at their sporting events or out at brunch with incredible friends and a mimosa.
Role models My father, Alice Waters, Thomas Keller and anyone else out there making a difference in the world through food.
Career high I opened an email from a client whose family had been struggling with very restrictive food allergies that read, “Kendra, I want you to know that our entire family sat down together in the dining room (my husband’s idea – we rarely do this) on Friday and then again on Sunday night to enjoy your lovely meals. I can’t tell you how nice that was, especially since nothing was off limits to our son and all five of us loved what we were eating. Thank you!”
First job Williams-Sonoma. I started there on the first day I was legal to work!
Guilty pleasure Champagne.
My autobiography “The Grocery Cart is Half Full: Entertaining an Urban Life of Fabulous Food and Incredible Friends While Running a Business all with a Caddywhompus Wheel.”
Ideal partner Someone who can make me laugh and makes me coffee.
First thing I notice Someone’s smile. I like to see if it reaches their eyes.
Most memorable date Still open for consideration.
Deal breaker Lack of manners.
Date me because I’ll always have restaurant suggestions.
Leah Drew
29
Chicago Events and Outreach Coordinator, Bright Pink
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current Neighborhood Old Town
Meet the parents When I feel they’ve earned the privilege of sipping port and smoking cigars with my dad.
Perfect Saturday night The kind that are completely unpredictable, last until sunrise and have you smiling for a week.
Friends would say I’m a spark plug.
My family is A consistent source of delightful hilarity.
Fun fact As a child I was in a runway fashion show.
Job perk I am able to positively impact the lives of amazing young women each and every day.
My passion is Learning and speaking different languages. They are the doorways to culture.
Life motto Hakuna Matata.
Perfect Saturday night The kind that are completely unpredictable, last until sunrise and have you smiling for a week.
My hero is My dad, for teaching me about boundless love.
Happiest day of my life WILL BE my wedding day. Date and husband TBD.
If I won the lottery I’d visit every continent and set up a Foundation to provide grant money to small non-profits.
Super power Teleporting and dancing (yes, I consider that a super power).
Guilty pleasure www.peopleofwalmart.com
I can talk for hours about Glee
Nickname Lay
Favorite neighborhood Hyde Park/Kenwood (HPK) and Old Town.
First thing I notice Whether or not they’re a fellow southpaw.
On first dates I’m usually not the designated driver.
Deal breaker Smokes, is married and/or lives with their parents.
Impressed a date by Being nominated as one of TCW’s Top Singles in Chicago.
Date me because Ask me on a date and you can find out!
And I’m fluent in French and would really love to learn Arabic.
Lisa Kramer
35
U.S. Ski and Snowboard Team Foundation
On the side Step Up Women’s Network
Hometown Bloomfield Hills, Michigan
Current Neighborhood River North
First thing I notice Confidence and witty sense of humor.
Ideal Saturday night Definitely involves good friends and wine.
Hobbies Skiing, running, traveling and my family and friends.
At 21, I wish I knew To invest my money in Google.
My family is My support system and my fan club!
Friends would say I’m good at making lemonade when life serves up lemons.
Job perk I am so inspired with the talent, dedication and commitment of the young men and women on the US. Ski Team and U.S. Snowboarding. In addition, I get to rip up the slopes with some of the best skiers in the world.
Chicago pride I love the variety of diverse neighborhoods, each with its own charm and character.
Secret talent Mad skills with a hoola hoop.
Life motto Great love and achievement involves great risk.
Day off You’ll find me running on the lakefront and meeting friends for lunch.
My hero My mom for her ambition, strength, grace and unwavering optimism.
If I won the lottery I would treat all of my family and friends to an insane vacation. It would be the perfect opportunity to share my good fortune with the people I love.
Super power wish Shaun White super powers. I’m pretty sure he’s not human. Who wouldn’t want to be that guy for a day?
Ideal partner Is confident, intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious, has a great sense of humor and doesn’t take himself too seriously.
First dates I’m usually open minded and optimistic.
Deal breaker smokes or dislikes dogs.
Date me because I go with the flow.
Malika Ameen
36
Founder and owner of ByMDesserts, LLC
On the side Human Development Foundation
Hometown Glencoe, Illinois
Current neighborhood Old Town
Job perk Good food gives joy to others and brings people together.
My autobiography “Half-Baked and Burnt on the Edges: Perseverance and Staying True to Myself.”
Meet the parents When I’m not worried about my mother’s reaction.
Nickname Granola Queen.
First thing I notice Confidence.
My family is The light of my life.
Friends say I’m outspoken and silly.
Job perk Good food gives joy to others and brings people together.
Life motto Only look back to learn how to look forward.
Day off You’ll find me grocery shopping.
Role model My father, who I aspire most to be like.
Career high In the dining section of The New York Times, there was an article that featured one of my recipes and myself.
Superpower wish To detect if someone’s lying.
Guilty pleasure Sea salt and vinegar chips.
Wish I’d known at 21 That I will never be 21 again.
Can talk forever about Food.
Nickname Granola Queen.
Ideal partner Is sincere and kind and doesn’t stop making me laugh.
Deal breaker Smokers.
Date me because I’ll always find a way to laugh.
Marcus Gilmer
31
Associate Editor of The Onion’s AV Club
Hometown Huntsville, Alabama
Current Neighborhood Roscoe Village
Ideal Partner Smart, easy-going and able to make me laugh.
Impressed a date by Showing off my Olympic Torch from running the torch relay in 2002.
Friends would say I’m funny and also wonderfully inappropriate.
Passions My family and the New Orleans Saints.
My family is Loving and wonderfully inappropriate.
Fun fact I participated in the 2002 Olympic torch relay.
Job Perk The amazingly talented and creative people I get to work with every day.
Chicago Pride The people here know how to celebrate life (and summer).
Hobbies Running, reading and hitting up all the music shows this town has to offer.
Perfect Saturday It would be something low key with friends.
Day off You’ll find me taking my dog to the dog park/beach.
Role model My mom for her strength in overcoming so much adversity in her own life and never letting it consume her.
Proudest career moment Starting my current job.
Make my life complete A family of my own.
If I won the lottery I’d retire.
If I had a super power It would be flight.
First job A meat slicer in a grocery store deli.
Guilty pleasure Avril Lavigne.
I wish I’d known at 21 That all the hard work really would pay off.
Favorite Neighborhood Lincoln Square.
First thing I notice Eyes.
First dates I’m usually nervous
Dating in Chicago It’s great because there are so many wonderful women.
Date me because I have a great sense of humor and it’s hard to make me feel uncomfortable.
Maria Guerra
35
Deputy Budget Director, City of Chicago
On the side Metropolitan Leadership Institute
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Humboldt Park
First thing I notice Eyes. I look for warmth.
Meet the parents When I think the relationship will survive the embarrassing stories they are bound to hear.
Fun fact I am extremely athletic and competitive. Most recently, I completed a full Ironman triathlon, and earned a purple belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
Chicago pride It’s the best city in the world. It has great people, architecture, food, art, culture – there’s just so much to this city.
My family They are my foundation. I could not be where I am today without the love, understanding, support and independence they give me.
Friends would say I am intense, dynamic, hyper-active, and others would say I am lots of fun, kind, smart, well-traveled and resourceful. I think everyone would agree, though, that I am hard-working and funny.
Job pride I feel like I am making a contribution to a city that has given me so much.
Secret talent My ability to read people. I should have been a CIA agent.
Life motto Live, love, learn. I am constantly seeking new challenges and experiences. For me there’s no better feeling than accomplishing something I once thought was impossible/too difficult.
Perfect Saturday night Spent in the company of good friends or family.
Role models All strong women throughout history who, through their courage and determination have been pioneers, and have paved the way for the subsequent generations of women. Women who have followed their hearts, pursued their passion and changed the world.
Proudest career moment Earning my JD/MBA.
If I won the lottery I’d open up an orphanage and raise as many children as I could afford to send to college with the lottery winnings. These children would be raised to lead healthy (physically, spiritually, emotionally, nutritionally) and productive lives.
My ideal partner Smart, strong, confident, ambitious, interesting, athletic, thoughtful, kind and has a healthy sense of humor.
I’d never date someone Who looks in the mirror more than I do.
Dating in Chicago It’s great because there are so many fun things to do and see, and lots of great neighborhoods and restaurants to explore.
Mark Carroll
32
Self-employed athletic industry consultant
On the side Campaign advisor for my identical twin brother’s campaign for Alderman of the 46th Ward in Chicago, Board member at Lincoln Park Boat Club
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Uptown/Buena Park
My family is large, very close and is strong in tradition.
Friends say I’m the one to ask first if you need someone to help you move.
Fun fact I’m an identical twin. Michael, my twin brother, is six minutes older than me.
Job perk I’m doing what I really like to do.
Passion Working with other Chicagoans in order to improve our city.
Chicago Pride It is the place where I feel most comfortable. Chicago is the city that my ancestors picked to relocate after coming from Ireland and Italy. And I feel linked into the heart of this City, more than any other place in the world.
My secret talent I am a ringer for Trivial Pursuit or pub trivia nights.
Life motto I do not like to lead my life by mottos, but I do like to look back to history as a guide for how I lead my life. One of the most prominent quotes that stand out in my mind is Abraham Lincoln’s saying: “I would like to think that I am smarter today than I was yesterday.” This reminds me to learn from my mistakes and to approach challenges in my life as a continual learning process. I try not to get frustrated when things aren’t going as well as usual.
Hobbies Rowing and road trips with friends.
Perfect Saturday night Is at the local pub hanging with my good friends.
Day off You’ll find me up early (this is a change from when I was just out of college) and usually, volunteering to help with a local crew team.
Role models Anyone who knowingly puts other people before themselves. I was Jesuit taught, and because of that I keep their motto “Men for Others” in mind while doing service work.
Happiest day of my life was Yet to happen.
Career high Yet to happen.
Life complete Is a life without many regrets.
If won the lottery, I would live the exact same way I do right now. Money can come and go, and you can always make more, but it’s important to always be yourself.
Superpower wish The power of flight. Just think how much easier life would be!
First job I was a bus boy at Ridgemore Country Club in Chicago when I was 15 years old.
Guilty pleasure Double stuffed Oreos.
Wish I’d known at 21 That credit cards are not the answer for moving out and living on your own.
In 10 years I see myself happy and content with life.
Can talk forever about The history of the City of Chicago.
Nickname I never had a nickname growing up. Probably because I am a twin, so we were called M&M very often.
Fave neighborhood Edgebrook. It’s where I grew up.
My autobiography “An Unfinished Work.”
Ideal partner Someone who is honest, giving and open minded. I’m a very loyal person, and I want someone to be just as connected to me as I am to her.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date A simple night of talking over a few drinks on a cold wintry Chicago night.
On first dates, I’m usually the first one there, and I always pay. Old-fashioned? Maybe. But it’s definitely appropriate.
Deal breaker Someone who does not have the same priorities in life as I do. And I’d never date someone who did not want me to pursue what makes me happy.
Meet the parents When I can see the relationship developing beyond the typical dating scenario of dinner and drinks.
Impressed a date by Opening the door when I drove her home for the night. Chivalry is not dead – it has just been forgotten by many of the men out there.
Dating in Chicago Is tough. Unless you get setup through friends, work or meet someone through a non-bar setting, it seems like there is really is no good way to date. Introducing yourself to a woman in a loud, crowded bar can be an unfulfilling process.
Date me because I promise to be myself from the start. I won’t pretend to be anyone that I’m not.
And I love to travel, but prefer to do it the hard way – in a car –rather than by plane. I love to fly, but driving gives you a perspective on the trip/distance that you could not get from a flight.
Mark Colpoys
45
Vice President of Event Marketing & Management for Fleet Feet Sports
On the side Several local charities
Hometown Buffalo, New York
Current neighborhood Uptown
My family is The most important thing to me.
Friends say I’m very loyal.
Fun fact I used to work for Michael Jordan.
Job perk Every day I get to help people reach their goals.
Chicago Pride It is a small town in many ways, but you can do anything here that you could also do in New York or Los Angeles for half the cost and twice as much fun.
Secret talent Is bartending. I was a professional bartender for seven years. You name a drink, and I can create it while doing all of the bottle spins and glass flips.
Life motto Don’t take yourself so seriously, and no matter what happens, the sun is still going to come up tomorrow.
Hobbies Running and hiking – basically anything outdoors.
Perfect Saturday night Is grilling out with good food and drinks with friends and that special person.
Day off You’ll find me doing something athletic and then relaxing with family and friends.
Hero/role model My mom.
Happiest day of my life When my daughter was born.
Career high When Fleet Feet Sports Soldier Field 10 Mile was named Race of the Year. I was proud because I’m the race director.
Life complete Find that one special person.
If won the lottery I’d still work. I just couldn’t sit around and do nothing.
Superpower wish Super speed. I could accomplish more in a day and then have more time to spend with family and friends.
First job Was with Bud Light. I dressed up as Spuds Mackenzie at Giants Stadium and passed out footballs to fans.
Guilty pleasure Fine wine.
Wish I’d known at 21 That life doesn’t have to be so serious. It’s okay to lighten up and be yourself.
In 10 years I see myself still helping people reach their goals.
Can talk forever about Just about anything. I know a little bit about everything…just enough to get me into trouble.
Fave neighborhood Old Town. It has great restaurants and festivals. It’s close to the lake, the park, the zoo and of course, one of our Fleet Feet Sports retail stores is located there.
My autobiography “There Is No Finish Line (only New Starting Lines).”
Ideal partner Is simply someone who is a “good person” – the kind of person who truly cares about others.
First thing I notice Eyes.
Most memorable date Hopefully, I haven’t had it yet.
On first dates I’m usually just listening so that I can get to know the person I’m with.
Meet the parents Ah, come on! You kind of just know.
Impressed a date By being myself.
Dating in Chicago Is great because people here are genuinely nice and there are so many great things to do.
Date me because I turn off everything else going on around me and focus on the person I’m with.
And I’m a big goofball.
Mark Nilsson
35
TV personality on ABC-7’s 190 North
On the side Coach youth basketball
Hometown Blue Island, Illinois
Current neighborhood Crestwood, Illinois
My family is Swedish/Italian and totally awesome.
Friends say Depends which ones you ask, but probably that I’m reliable, outgoing and totally awesome.
Fun fact I was on a reality show.
Job perk I get to eat all the best foods in Chicago and meet great people.
Passion Running.
Chicago pride The people, the sports and the food make the city.
Secret talent Juggling.
Life motto Be ready.
Hobbies Basketball, softball and running.
Perfect Saturday night If I’m off, it’s hanging at a local dive bar with friends.
Day off You’ll find me in bed.
Career high Winning a Best Actor award for the Oceanside Film Festival.
Life complete Would be one with children.
If won the lottery I’d be rich.
Superpower wish The ability to fly.
My first job Coat check at a banquet hall.
My guilty pleasure High-end beers.
Nickname Boots.
First thing I notice Smile.
On first dates I’m usually nervous.
Deal breakers Drugs. Also, I would never date someone who is on death row.
Impressed a date by Singing karaoke. It wasn’t good.
Date me because I like to have fun, and I know where all the hot spots in the city are because of my great job.
Michael D. Perry
27
Programming Project Coordinator for Chicago Loop Alliance
On the side Community Fellowship Church, www.MyDrinkOn.com, Junior Board of Auditorium Theatre at Roosevelt University, Junior Achievement, Center for Economic Progress
Hometown and current neighborhood Glen Ellyn, Illinois
Friends say I’m hardworking, friendly, charming, loyal, polite and well-spoken.
Fun fact This summer I completed 150 skydives and in late summer I participated in the United States Parachute Association 2010 National Skydiving Championship and was the only person with 111 jumps to compete in a national tournament.
Job perk I network with some of the top executives in Chicago. I see artists and property owners get excited about turning vacant storefronts into temporary Pop-Up Art Loop art galleries. I create random places of beauty that bring new energy to the Loop neighborhood. Did I mention that I get paid to network?
Passion Skydiving, snowboarding, environmental sustainability, culture, food, friendships and family.
Chicago pride The different neighborhoods have so much to offer: hot dogs, good pizza, all the great museums, Chicago Symphony Orchestra, Civic Opera House, Grant Park, Midwestern hospitality, the Chicago Skyline at night and fireworks in the summer.
Hobbies Skydiving, snowboarding, canoeing, horseback riding, sailing and running.
Perfect Saturday night A night out with my friends doing something new.
Day off You’ll find me staying active in mind and body; consulting with friends on new business ventures; keeping in touch with friends overseas; working on one of my volunteer projects; working with a small group leadership team at my church; skydiving at Chicagoland Skydiving Center or traveling.
If won the lottery I’d buy my mom a house, pay off my sister’s school loans, buy a new car and donate all my time to my volunteering.
Superpower wish See the future.
Guilty pleasure Burberry boxer-briefs.
Nickname At 12, when I was at summer camp, my nickname was “Slick” because I got away with everything. Now, my boss calls me “Nature guy” because I eat healthy and recycle.
Fave Chicago neighborhood The Loop!
Ideal partner Is someone who inspires, complements and completes me and shares some of my values about family and life.
First thing I notice Eyes, personality and presence.
Most memorable date It started by meeting at the beach and heading to the Cubs vs. Cardinals game in Wrigleyville. After that we went dancing, which was followed by getting an appetizer at Potter’s Lounge in the Palmer House. Our date ended at theWit Hotel’s ROOF for a nightcap.
On first dates I’m usually shy, but talkative.
Dating in Chicago Is great because there are so many people! But that’s the same reason it’s also difficult.
Nicole Bradley
28
Director of Marketing & Player Development, Select Sports Group Founder, the Be Legendary Project
On the side Kids Fight Cancer, Division of Autoimmune Disease, Gonzaga University Alumni Association
Hometown Dillon, Montana and Spokane, Washington
Current Neighborhood River North
My family is The absolute most important thing in my life. It’s interesting how, as you become older, your parents and siblings can also become your best friends. They continually inspire me and remind me about the truly important things in life.
Friends would say I work too much.
Job perk I absolutely love working with athletes and helping them become a success off the field. They have so many people helping them on the field, it’s nice to be a part of a different aspect of their lives. That’s how the Be Valuable project started. I truly believe sports can teach our children valuable life lessons.
Guilty pleasure The new cartoon movies. Growing up on a ranch in Montana we had two options, channel 4 or channel 6. So it was “Sesame Street” or “Garfield.” I feel spoiled now.
Could talk for hours about Basically anything with someone who is genuine. I appreciate when people are confident in who they are.
Perfect Saturday It would be either watching my Zags play or going to see the Bulls play the Celtics or Lakers.
Ideal partner A guy who has a quiet confidence and is honest, passionate about life and motivated.
Passion Surrounding myself with the most incredible people I know and fully enjoying every day.
Chicago pride I not only love Chicago, I am in love with Chicago. Beyond the amazing people and extraordinary architecture, the city just captivates you.
Life motto Find peace. Peace with where you have been and what you have been through. Peace with where you are today and peace with what lies ahead.
Hobbies Traveling with my best friend Emily, pretty much any sporting event, yoga, golf, snowboarding and playing basketball.
Role model Jacqueline Kennedy.
First job Working at a fly fishing resort in Montana. On my days off I would go fishing on the river with the guides. I think at the time I was working on my tan more than my fishing skills, but I loved it.
Wish I’d known at 21 Nothing is ever as good, or bad, as it may seem. You can’t control other people’s actions. Accept people for who they are and appreciate that, good or bad – you’ll learn from them.
Favorite neighborhood River North. It’s close to Michigan Avenue and all the entertainment, but has such a charming neighborhood vibe.
First notice Their hands.
Deal breaker Who didn’t have a passion.
Dating in Chicago For me, dating in general is touch. It seriously makes me nervous just talking about it. My friends laugh at me.
Date me because I’m simple but sophisticated, I’m a little bit country and a little bit city. I’m kind but confident, and I’m truly passionate about life and sharing it with people I care about.
Pasquale A. Iannino Jr.
27
Creative director/Videographer, Rockit Projects Inc.
On the side Project Hope, World Vets and other organizations around the globe
Hometown Lombard, Illinois
Current Neighborhood Little Italy
My family is Loud, compassionate and very diverse.
Job perk I get to meet new people every time I work, take adventures and capture stories that are rarely told.
Passions My family, my love life and myself.
Friend would say I’m passionate about life.
Fun Fact I spent three weeks on the U.S.S. Iwo Jima as a volunteer for the Continuing Promise 2010 medical mission.
Dating in Chicago It’s a very diverse city with many styles of women. The trick is narrowing it down.
Ideal partner Someone to share wine and laugh with, who enjoys life and can role with the punches.
Chicago pride I have grown my roots deep into the asphalt of the city throughout my life. Chicago has everything I need.
Secret talent I do voice-over for many of my video productions – listen closely.
Life motto Tell it like it is.
Hobbies Basketball with my friends, hiking out west and brewing my own beer.
Perfect Saturday Making dinner and drinks at home and then listen to some blues at Buddy Guys. Keep the night going with more drinks and good company.
Day off I don’t get too many of these but you could find me at a museum or running along the lake.
Role model My dad, the original entrepreneur.
Proudest career moment When I decided to go into business for myself.
First job Working at my parents’ Italian restaurant. I was a busboy.
I wish I’d known at 21 My 20s would pass by so quickly, so take advantage of every moment.
In 10 years, I see myself No doubt living my dreams created today.
Nickname Peeps.
Favorite neighborhood Little Italy.
First notice Their eyes.
On first dates I’m the one who talks the most.
Meet the parents I feel it’s time to have the best meal on the planet.
Deal breaker Someone who has to talk over me.
Date me because I have the ability to make any time, a good time!
Paul Ridley
27
Executive Director of Row for Hope
On the side The Explorer’s Club, American Alpine Club
Hometown Binghamton, New York
Current neighborhood Evanston
Fun Fact Last year, I rowed a boat 3,500 miles alone across the Atlantic Ocean to raise money for cancer research. Next year, I’m leading a first-ever expedition to row 1,110 miles across the Arctic Ocean.
Job perk I’m my own boss and I get to work with energetic, adventurous and inspiring people.
Passion Taking time regularly to be outdoors, which helps me appreciate how comfortable and easy my day-to-day life is.
Life motto Seize the nap.
Happiest day of my life When I hugged my friends and family in Antigua after 87 days alone at sea.
Career high Writing a check for $150,000 to a cancer research hospital after months of hard work and fundraising on its behalf.
If won the lottery I’d buy a house on a lake in the woods with a big fireplace and room for an enormous Christmas tree.
First job I was 14, and I swept the floors at the Binghamton Mets minor-league baseball stadium.
Nickname In college it was Boo, like Boo Radley from “To Kill a Mockingbird.”
Ideal partner Super smart and a little goofy, and doesn’t try to hard.
Most memorable date It was over a long dinner at a little French restaurant complete with Champagne, escargot, crème caramel and great company.
On first dates I’m usually only thinking about minimizing the awkwardness.
Deal breakers Someone who takes herself too seriously – a little humor goes a long way.
Impressed a date By going to a ballet. It really wasn’t that bad.
And I have a huge tongue. My friends have said it’s like a pancake and that it’s a miracle that it can fit in my mouth.
Rachel Schwanz
30
Catering and event planner extraordinaire, Entertaining Company
On the side Y.E.S!/Dress For Success, Event Chair
Hometown Grosse Pointe, Michigan
Current neighborhood West Loop
Friends say I’m like a disco ball – always running around and bright!
Job perk It fuses all my favorite worlds: cooking, fashion, events and weddings.
Passions Cooking and cocktails. Italian’s my fave, and I can whip up a mean pasta or risotto out of nowhere. I’m always coming up with new cocktails and cool garnishes. I also enjoy styling outfits you’d never think could work, but look so cool. Raw Glam all the way.
Secret talents I’m kind of a jack-of-all-trades. I can do everything from painting to changing a tire to producing a fashion show to cooking one hell of a meal, to…you get the point.
Life motto Come strong or go home!
Perfect Saturday night Dinner, drinks, dancing! Unless, I did that on Friday…then it’s pizza and a movie!
Day off You’ll find me at any of these places: Costco, Whole Foods, Jo-Ann Fabrics and Crafts. I could also be shopping downtown or working out, or if it’s summer, I’ll be at the beach or pool.
In 10 years I want a cooking show and clothing label…now!
Can talk forever about Cars, boats and vacations/traveling. I have a love of car racing (grew up at Indy Car races) and for anything on the water (boat races). I also have a love of Italian and German cars – especially Ferraris. Stick me on a racetrack and I’m good to go! (Or in a kitchen…duh.)
Nicknames Raquel, Ray, Schwanzie, Schwanzerella and Rach. The latest one is Schwanzarazzi.
Fave neighborhood Bucktown. Boy, do I miss living over there.
My autobiography “Four Inch Heels and a Frying Pan.” (It’s the title of my new blog and cooking class.)
First thing I notice Height, shoes and watch.
Most memorable date I think I’m still waiting for it! I’ve had lots of great evenings, but nothing that qualifies as “best.”
Deal breakers If he’s short. Sorry, but I’m tall!
Impressed a date by Cookingbourbon and brown sugar glazed pork shoulder, signature “Rachel” risotto and maple glazed brussel sprouts. The desert was chocolate mousse, strawberry reduction, mint and fresh whipped cream.
Date me because I’m full of energy and look great in a cocktail dress or jeans. You can take me anywhere.
Sean Moran
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Marketing/operations director, Anastacia Chatzka
Hometown Mokena, Illinois
Current Neighborhood Wicker Park
My family is Like the Costanza’s, but more supportive.
Friends would say I’m loyal, determined and talkative.
Job perk I am shaping the future of a fashion brand from the ground up; it’s the culmination of years of work I only dreamed I would put into practice.
Life motto Everything happens for a reason; just keep oneself open to possibility.
Hobbies Cycling, reading.
Perfect Saturday Making an extravagant dinner at home and enjoying a couple drinks.
Happiest day Cycling up the Grand Ballon at the Tour de France in 1992 when I was 14 – summiting only 30 minute before the pro’s.
Career high Opening the doors of the boutique on June 13, 2009.
If I won the lottery I’d send you a postcard from my yacht in the south of France.
Super power wish Flight.
First job Mowing lawns, like most guys.
Guilty pleasure Chipotle.
I wish I’d known at 21 That I was on the right path, stay focused.
In 10 years, I see myself Running a multi-million dollar fashion brand here in Chicago.
I can talk for hours about A lot of topics, I am an information junkie: news, cycling, fashion and international business.
Ideal partner Passionate, stylish and funny.
Best date Walking the Art Institute with someone who had never been there.
On first dates I’m usually optimistic.
Deal breaker Someone who is an introvert.
Date me because I am open-minded, funny and a dapper dresser.
Stacey Cohen
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Interior designer/LEED AP, Principle, Stacey Cohen Interiors
On the side Fundraising for Parkinson’s Research
Hometown Detroit suburbs
Current neighborhood River North
Friends would say I’m sincere and loyal.
Day off You’ll find me on a walk, on a bike ride, at the gym, in the park, at the zoo, at a museum, at Whole Foods, shopping, reading, cooking, on my couch or eating (but not necessarily all in one day or in that order).
On first dates I like it to be a date, not a business meeting.
First thing I notice The way they treat others.
My family is The reason I do and have been able to do what I do.
First job I sewed silk flowers on the edge of white v-neck t-shirts and sold them from my locker in the ninth grade. At one point, I was taking special orders on color selections.
Chicago pride It’s filled with the entrepreneur spirit. I don’t think I would have ever been able to feel so at ease of launching my own business in any other city.
Happiest day My graduation. My whole family flew into New York for the ceremony and celebration.
Proudest career moment The launch of Stacey Cohen Interiors, once I put myself out there, so many pieces fell into place.
Perfect Saturday It’s constantly changing.
Guilty Pleasure Watching movies and eating bowls and bowls of popcorn.
If I won the lottery I’d live move somewhere warm and figure out the rest once I got there.
Ideal partner Is out there, somewhere…
Deal breaker Someone who is more negative than he is nice.
Meet the parents Once I’ve met their parents.
Stefanie Safran
36
Recessionista Matchmaker/Principal at Stef and the City
Hometown Highland Park, Illinois
Current Neighborhood Old Town
Ideal partner Is out there and ready to meet me!
Most memorable date Unexpected, like most things in life.
Chicago pride There is a lot to do, so many different types of people to meet and the summers are awesome.
Secret talent Baking amazing cupcakes.
My friends would say I’m definitely in the right profession.
Fun fact I was extremely shy in high school.
Guilty pleasure Reading gossip magazines.
Job perk I get to help people find things in life that make them happy.
Hobbies Biking, working out, cooking, traveling and spending time with good friends.
Perfect Saturday night A great restaurant (with a new significant other) and a good movie.
If I won the lottery I’d take a vacation around the world and start my own charity.
Superpower wish Reading people’s minds.
In 10 years I see myself married with kids and still helping others revitalize their social lives.
I’d call my autobiography “Revitalizing My Life After 30: Being My Own Wingman.”
First thing I notice Their eyes and their smile.
Impressed a date by Learning about football.
On first dates I’m usually nervous, like most people.
Deal breaker Someone who isn’t romantic and doesn’t like to talk.
Date me because I’m adventurous and creative. I’d try anything once!
Suzanne Kopulos
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Co-founder and style director of Garmental.com, Owner of Boujie Baby Couture
On the side Junior League Evanston-North Shore; Sunday school teacher, St. Luke Orthodox Church; Participant, Project Mexico, St. Innocent Orphanage –Tijuana, Mexico
Hometown Flossmoore, Illinois
Current Neighborhood Bridgeport
My family is Incredibly loud and extremely fun!
Friends would say I think I’m a comedian.
Fun fact I graduated from law school and instead of practicing, I jetted off to NYC to learn about fashion in the garment district with a copy of WWD and amazing friends that let me crash at their place.
Job perk I shop for a living and I am constantly surrounded by amazing fashion.
Chicago pride It is the best combination of people, cuisine, nightlife, style and culture.
Life motto Shop ‘til ya drop!
Hobbies Shopping and attending or watching sporting events.
Perfect Saturday Being out with friends at great restaurants and bars.
Role model Diane von Furstenberg. I am in awe of the DVF brand.Mostly because Diane designs for every woman and produces pieces with longevity and should be a staple in every closet. I would love to continue building my own brand to be so respected in the industry and be a catalyst for the future of handbag/maternity style.
Happiest day The day I decided to become an entrepreneur.
Proudest career moment Being part of the team that launched my dream concept, Garmental. It is unlike any fashion site to date. Garmental is one of a kind. It is so exciting to see it grow.
Super power Teleportation.
First job Working as a sales associate at The Limited.
Guilty pleasure Bravo TV.
I can talk for hours about Baseball.
Title of my autobiography “Tres Awesome.”
First thing I notice If they are the funny guy in the room.
On first dates I’m usually a little bit shy.
Deal breaker Someone who asks me out and then wants me to plan the date.
Dating in Chicago It’s great because there are so many fun things to do and places to go.
Date me because I am up for just about anything short of jumping out of a plane, but I might just do that too!
Vaughn Bryant
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Administrator, Deputy Officer for Chicago Public Schools
On the side Kappa Alpha Psi, Chicago Urban League Metro Board
Hometown Detroit, Michigan
Current neighborhood South Loop
My family has a fascinating story. The most recent highlight is my brother’s high school basketball team winning the State Championship in California.
Friends say I’m an intellectual with social skills; flirtatious, but not a flatterer; deep yet shallow.
Fun fact I lived in seven cities during the two-year period after my undergrad.
Job perk I get to improve the lives of inner-city youth, utilize my gifts and work with people who really care about this city.
Passions Parenting, sports and public service.
Chicago pride There’s always something to do here, and it’s clean.
Life motto Make it happen.
Hobbies Cooking, sports and games.
Perfect Saturday night A dinner party with friends that includes games, music and good conversation.
Day off You’ll find me running on the lake, getting a lift in, cooking a meal, watching football or playing cards or scrabble.
Role models My boys who are dedicated husbands and fathers.
Happiest day of my life Was when my lil’ lady was born.
Career high Getting a job in April 1994 – just before graduation – only to be fired in August 1994. I guess you can say didn’t make the cut.
Life complete Finding the right woman to serve for the rest of my life.
If won the lottery I’d start seeing a therapist to overcome sudden wealth syndrome. Hopefully, I’d recover in time to become a philanthropist.
Superpower wish Clairvoyance.
First job Was at a plant that made oil used for cutting metal. Sounds exciting, huh?
Can talk forever about Social issues and politics.
Nickname Pootny (pronounced poot knee).
Ideal partner Is secure, smart, sexy and sassy. I prefer a Christian woman who is physically fit and has an appreciation for sports.
First thing I notice Her eyes if she walking toward me.
On first dates I’m usually relaxed, easy-going and looking forward to getting to know someone new.
Deal breaker If we have no chemistry.
Date me because If you are the right woman you will know why I am the ideal date.
Zandra Zuno
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Senior Vice President of Multicultural Marketing for GolinHarris
On the side Board member of Mujeres Latinas en Acción; El Valor board member; Loyola University Chicago School of Communication Advisory Council
Hometown Chicago, Illinois
Current neighborhood Wicker Park/Bucktown
My family is Where everything begins and ends.
Friends say I’m a great friend and confidant.
Job perk It’s challenging, interesting and ever-evolving.
Passion Education. I enjoy being an active member of a dialogue that seeks solutions to our education crisis.
Chicago Pride It has so much to offer: culture, diversity, people, arts and food. It’s simply the best city.
Secret talent I paint, or at least try to.
Life motto Everything in life has a solution.
Perfect Saturday night Interesting conversation with close friends over a wonderful meal and great wine.
Day off You’ll find me doing nothing.
Role models My mom and dad. They are not only wonderful parents, but are also exceptional people.
If won the lottery, I’d take a yearlong sabbatical to travel the world and start an endowment that supports nonprofits.
Guilty pleasure A monthly massage.
In 10 years I will have visited all seven continents!
Favorite neighborhood Wicker Park, of course.
My autobiography “Hard Work Pays Off.”
Ideal partner Knows what he wants out of life.
First thing I notice Confidence.
On first dates I’m usually shy.
Deal breaker Smokers.
Impressed a date by Cooking a meal.
Date me because I have my act together.
